u/NotAnElfK

I look for shark teeth by going to shell beds of dredged sand, then I grab handfuls and sift thru them to find teeth. I also walk on the beach looking for very dark black spots as I walk checking to see if there teeth. I find a lot of small ones, but I’ve only ever found one big tooth in my years of searching at Myrtle Beach, and Calvert Cliffs. At Calvert people use strainers, and find big teeth, shouldn’t I be doing that?

I personally have 3 binders at the beach, 2 worn out ones for swimming. (I went on hormone blockers so I have a really small chest, so I’m fine to swim with a binder) and one tighter one for land. The only issue is when I’m wet you can see my binder thru my shirt
But I’m curious what other people do for the beach? And are there any thicker swim shirts that won’t show my binder?

I never really did wish of the day, but I started doing it, and the same person has won 3 times, is it not random, is the account hacking, or is it a glitch on my part?

For some context I’m 15 ftm, and have been fully socially transitioned for a little over 4 years. Everyone else in my family calls me by the correct pronouns and name and have been doing so for years, excepted dad.
He doesn’t live with me, and tbh is a bit of a deadbeat. I only see him every few months, and he rarely ever texts. I want to see him In person, but anytime i come over he always misgenders me and uses my deadname a ton.
I’m moving about 2 and a half hours away from him, which means I’m going to have to spend the night with him if I want to see him, but I hate being with him for that long, it’s exhausting to be around him. And I know he doesn’t want to change.

I have a nonbinary sibling who has been out for a literal decade! And they had to cut contact with him. And so have 2 of my other siblings for other reasons. So when I go, it’s only me, or me and my brother, and when my brother comes I can especially tell the difference of how he treats us.
But at the same time I want a relationship with him, and if I stop talking to him, then my older brother will have to constantly listen to him talk about how he’s right and nothings fair (he does that to us about my siblings who don’t talk to him)