UPDATE: I found the guy who said being nonchalant can get me girls.
He is my high school friend. I was always jealous of him bcs he always had the girls in class laughing at EVERYTHING he said, and that was weird bcs he didn't talk too much.
That is one of the reason i belived him that much that I didn't ask him what he meant by that; that's the key problem. I never knew what it actually meant. After I talked with him yesterday, he started laughing and said that it was true; he told me that. But he also said that the reason he had so many girls and was popular at that time, and still is now, was because he realized that the less he cared about girls and the more he focused on his own life, the more women started craving his company.
Changes started to happen instantly. He said he read some kind of book, and that same day he started doing something about it. Everything changed the moment he started viewing the world logically.
"Women dont want you to because you are always there, or if you are always agreeing with them. You need to understand that they love grounded men that has his own opinions and maybe even delusional views of the world. They like when you dont give all the info about anything, they mind craves mystery and drama. If you give them space to fill, they are yours."
He later started repeating about the neediness that he sees in most men; he read in that same book that it kills every chance with girls, and before that he never even realized how much women hate it... He also advised his little brother and told him about everything he learned in that period. Later on, the kid (mind you 18y old) had 4 girls, in the SAME TIME!!!
If you remember what I wrote 2 days ago, I had none... I have to admit I am jealous of the kid.
Just wanted to share this story with y'all because I decided to change my dating life asap, and to write my progress here.
PS: Thanks for advising me on my last comment; it really helped.