Friendly Reminder of Rules of Community 💙
Hi All! :)
I hope you are doing well! For those that may not know me, I'm Observer or Obby and I'm one of the co-founders of the group. =) I'm glad you are all here!
I've been seeing how you all have been doing amazing, supporting one another, and being kind to those that have been mean or don't quite understand your requests in this group! :) I'd like to give a friendly reminder to those that are coming into this community of the initial intent of the group. :)
Firstly, this group works! It is saddening to see individuals post on other people's posts and disrespect others and/or say that their requests don't matter. It doesn't only impact the individual you are posting it to; it is impacting others around in the community, including myself as a manager of the subreddit community. It discourages me to see others discouraged and it hurts personally when I see others hurting. Most importantly, however, I've seen that road before where you think that a screen can hide the reason you are being mean to others and it doesn't make you feel good when you realize you are hurting others. The guilt will stay with you... Whatever you may be feeling, going through, or experiencing, please try to think before you post and emojis don't make your mean response okay. Disrespecting others is still disrespecting with or without. I try to set an example in this community for others to follow, and it has since been thriving amazingly!
If you have an opinion that may be strong or could offend someone else due to something you are experiencing, please refer it to me and or check out the success that we've had so far before you make claims that can hurt others. I'm always available to listen, offer support in any way I can, and more. I want everyone to be safe, including those being mean so that eventually they may see what we do. Kindness doesn't have to be taboo or a target, it can be a place where everyone is supported like what is currently going on.
For future reference, please read the other post on being mean: Cursing and Meanful Intents : r/SkyCOTLFreeTrading
I don't like banning people, since I know everyone deserves a chance. But I've opened my arms to have the individual speak and they didn't, so I banned them from the community.
I appreciate humor and engage in it when appropriate but requesting items that someone may like, shouldn't be a laughing joke because of their circumstances. We don't know what the other person is going through, we can only be a helping hand when we are able to.
We all need to collaborate, reflect, and decide today what type of people we need to be for ourselves and others, rather than what we "want" to be. 💙 I chose to be kind to others when I didn't give others a chance before and I couldn't change the past. I chose to change the future, and this is it. I forgave those that were being mean, since they may not understand or are going through something.
I hope we can all heal from this, become stronger, and let others know that kindness triumphs. :)
Keep being awesome, stronger, resilient, and bonded to helping others without limits. :) Keep being kind in every way you can, even when people speak bad about it. Show others what kindness really means, in the most honest way possible.
Keep believing kindness is a strength. 💙
~ Obby