



Multipleeeee of my exes, after spending yearsss with them, after breaking up, SWIFTLY end up marrying the very next person they date. It’s like I’m just training wheels for people. I can’t think of any other way to put it. It feels like I teach people what they want and don’t want in a partner and then they immediately go and get it after we break up. Does my chart show anything like that??
For those that initiated NC and or the breakup, do you think you feel the same way as the person that got broken up with or hit with the NC? For example, I recently lost a ltr and have been NC for a month now, breaking it once to get the rest of my stuff. They seemed happier and healthier with me out of their life and it left me questioning my feelings and that I should be at a better point in my healing journey.