u/Odd_one_out_146

So I (25 F) matched with this guy on bumble and guess what he lived within 1 km radius.

We talked for like 2 days on bumble mostly him being flirty and you know bhot tareef karna the usual, then the conversation moved to insta.

Within 2 days of knowing me brooo started sending me “good morning ☀️” texts and asking me about if I had lunch and dinner 🫣 🤷🏻‍♀️when I had clearly mentioned I take time to open up and trust

Within the first week of knowing him I had a interview which didn’t went well and had mentioned it to him , he asked me to go on date more like a meetup so my mood is better very thoughtful, he was very polite , apne hath se mujhe khilaya , mere ko ghar tk drop kiya and we hugged good bye .

After that he conversation didn’t went well over texts you know like kuch hota hi nahi tha uspe baat karne ko.

He asked to meet again I meet again after 2 days , i said politely no and kisi aur din plan karte h .

Our schedules were poles apart he had to wakeup at 3 am , I went to sleep at 1:30 am 🙂‍↕️.

Red flag for me 🚩 🚩 He started sending me wo couple wali reels , and kuchu puchu wali reels , and Im like dudeee 🫪🫪 5-7 din huye h baat bhi nhi hui h abhi ache se and you are behaving like you already are in a relationship with me .

2 nd red flag 🚩 he expected me to react or reply to all that msg and reels like I didn’t mentioned I first want to know you want to have conversations but uske naam pe toh bas yahi reply aate h “ofc me hu “ , “ofc kar liya” , “ metro me hu” , “ghar aa gya” bro din me kuch nhi hua tumhare sath koi kissa koi mazak …. Nahh wo nhi bola jata h .

Eventually after 2-3 days I texted him that this wont work out as we cant have conversations , we dont have the same level ya speed with which we like to proceed in this.

You know what the guy replied :

“ you dont put effort, you dont talk , I text u good morning good night i wait for your replies but you never respond “

The audacity 👁️👄👁️ . After that as he said “ I dont respond “ I really didn’t respond and left him on read . 😌😌

What do you think , was I correct 🫣?

P.s : I did mention talked to him about being too fast and expecting too much but the result was 😬😬 nothing.

I (25 F) had to move in with my other 2 college friends not too close but theek h na better than living with strangers becoz last flatmate was disgusting 🤢🤮……Will tell about her another day abhi ye wali sunoo.

I have been living in flat for a long time now and the other 2 have been living in PG’s so mere pass sara saman h …. Poora ghar jitna samjh rahe ho .

When we moved in together sab theek chal raha tha but there were some things like them being too secretive with their talks, always teaming up par wo bhi itna farak nhi padta tha. But they had to be nice to me warna kaise hote inke kaam .

Recently I had to be back home and my sister got a job , i said what better place than my room why take a seperate pg and waise bhi PG food is trash 🤢,so she moved in with them you might think sab theek hi hoga right ….. but nooo 🫨 .

I have my ways of geek my work done with them becoz obviously they are same age as me we can argue we can settle score , but my 👶 sister is younger she cant argue cant say anything.

So recently she told me they are not cleaning up after they use the kitchen or room , dont care if she has to go office 5 days early morning not like them koi time hi nhi h sone ka na uthne ka .

We have ac in one room only so we have to sleep together. They will play music late night, watch videos on full volume , late night aake light on karna randomly. Full on rage bait and pareshan karna .

My sister being my sister after the music incident palyed music the next morning while getting ready for work on full volume on 🔈 , will switch on light and leave the room 😂 .Make them realise how it feels .

They don’t discuss anything with her any more.Just being cordial 😑.

Lesson: don’t get flatmates 🫣.

Pata hai aaj kya hua

I (25 F) had to move in with my other 2 college friends not too close but theek h na better than living with strangers becoz last flatmate was disgusting 🤢🤮……Will tell about her another day abhi ye wali sunoo.

I have been living in flat for a long time now and the other 2 have been living in PG’s so mere pass sara saman h …. Poora ghar jitna samjh rahe ho .

When we moved in together sab theek chal raha tha but there were some things like them being too secretive with their talks, always teaming up par wo bhi itna farak nhi padta tha. But they had to be nice to me warna kaise hote inke kaam .

Recently I had to be back home and my sister got a job , i said what better place than my room why take a seperate pg and waise bhi PG food is trash 🤢,so she moved in with them you might think sab theek hi hoga right ….. but nooo 🫨 .

I have my ways of geek my work done with them becoz obviously they are same age as me we can argue we can settle score , but my 👶 sister is younger she cant argue cant say anything.

So recently she told me they are not cleaning up after they use the kitchen or room , dont care if she has to go office 5 days early morning not like them koi time hi nhi h sone ka na uthne ka .

We have ac in one room only so we have to sleep together. They will play music late night, watch videos on full volume , late night aake light on karna randomly. Full on rage bait and pareshan karna .

My sister being my sister after the music incident palyed music the next morning while getting ready for work on full volume on 🔈 , will switch on light and leave the room 😂 .Make them realise how it feels .

They don’t discuss anything with her any more.Just being cordial 😑.