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I think i’m having full on regrets about my relationship, I have realised it’s moved way to fast and I don’t know what to do.
I 24F meet my partner 30M we have been together for a year and recently engaged but lately I’m realising it isn’t all I thought it was.

I believe he is a massive people pleaser so often tells me what he thinks I want to hear with no follow through - don’t get me wrong he is an amazing person with the best heart which is why I fell in love but I now fear I have fallen out of it and so quickly.
I own my own home with next to no debt I have no children and a very strong worth ethic. He has a son from a previous relationship (that I adore) but that comes with a lot of baggage as it does and a mild amount of debt. Lately his work ethic and laziness has shone through and I think I genuinely have the ick but I also know i tend to run when things get serious so I was just trying to move past having cold feet but I now think it’s much more than that I truly don’t know what to do.

He loves me unconditionally and has some amazing core values but it’s the little things I can’t move past, so I’m looking forward for advice - is it worth staying and working at it or do I listen to that little voice in my head saying leave.

Please be kind first time poster!

I think i’m having full on regrets about my relationship, I have realised it’s moved way to fast and I don’t know what to do.
I 24F meet my partner 30M we have been together for a year and recently engaged but lately I’m realising it isn’t all I thought it was.

I believe he is a massive people pleaser so often tells me what he thinks I want to hear with no follow through - don’t get me wrong he is an amazing person with the best heart which is why I fell in love but I now fear I have fallen out of it and so quickly.
I own my own home with next to no debt I have no children and a very strong worth ethic. He has a son from a previous relationship (that I adore) but that comes with a lot of baggage as it does and a mild amount of debt. Lately his work ethic and laziness has shone through and I think I genuinely have the ick but I also know i tend to run when things get serious so I was just trying to move past having cold feet but I now think it’s much more than that I truly don’t know what to do.

He loves me unconditionally and has some amazing core values but it’s the little things I can’t move past, so I’m looking forward for advice - is it worth staying and working at it or do I listen to that little voice in my head saying leave.

Please be kind first time poster!