If you were moving to the city for the first time as someone in their twenties, what would you do to make the most of your time in the city?
I’m moving there in a month, and I want to get the most out of my experience. I love swimming, being outside, live music, and most importantly building community.
What tips or activities do you recommended that might be underrated?
Guysss I need a tattoo dedicated of the replacements and I legit would pay someone to help come up with a few ideas for me. All of my tattoos are music oriented and the replacements are my fav band of all time but I’ve been struggling coming up what to get for them.
My favorite albums are Tim or don’t tell a soul. I’m going for a Neo traditional or traditional style, not too big, no lyrics.
I really want something or a message that symbolizes them in an icon of some sort! Possible? DK! Please lmk or share what you have!!
Hey!
Okay I need some perspective here because I’m confusing myself lol.
I’ve noticed I tend to be drawn to quieter, more reserved “nerdy” guys (a lot of them would probably fall into the INFJ category). But at the same time… I really want someone who loves me out loud. Not in a nonchalant, low-key way.
For example, I dated someone in college and we were on the same team. If he had a great race, I’d be the first one hyping him up, running over, celebrating, all of that. But when I did well… nothing. No big reaction, no public excitement. Later on, in private (usually over the phone), he’d say really kind and sincere things, but in the moment it just felt like something was missing.
And now I’m wondering… am I attracted to the wrong type of person for what I actually need?
I like depth, calmness, and someone who’s a little more introspective. But I also want someone who will show up for me in the moment, laugh with me, celebrate me, and not be afraid to be expressive in public.
Does this make sense? Has anyone else felt this mismatch between what you’re drawn to vs. what actually fulfills you?