My best friend since middle school accused me of sleeping with her boyfriend and kicked me out
I was living with one of my closest friends, who I’ve known since middle school, for about two years.
About a year into living together, she started dating a guy and he pretty much immediately moved in. Because we had been extremely close for years, we talked about relationships and personal things all the time. She had told me herself that she had trust issues with him and suspected that he was talking/texting other women.
Knowing that, I purposely kept my distance from him. I barely spent time in the common areas, I never had conversations with him beyond basically “hi” and “bye,” and I had absolutely zero interest in this man.
Then one day I came home from vacation and she told me she wanted me to move out.
Her reasoning completely shocked me. She said she had heard noises coming from the basement at some point and somehow convinced herself that I had been hooking up with her boyfriend.
I repeatedly told her that absolutely NOTHING happened. I never touched her boyfriend, flirted with him, had private conversations with him, or had any interest in him whatsoever. I don’t even have this guys number. This was someone I had considered one of my best friends since we were kids, so the accusation was honestly insulting.
What made it even stranger was that she had previously suspected her own cousin of messing around with him too a few months prior.I’ve known her family for years, including the cousin, and even that accusation seemed completely out of left field to me. I honestly should have moved out immediately when she thought this
At that point I felt like her distrust of her boyfriend was starting to spill over onto the women around her.
I moved out within a week and we basically haven’t spoken since.
It’s still one of the weirdest friendship endings I’ve ever experienced, especially considering how many years we were close.
Would you have ended the friendship after an accusation like this? I don’t think I could ever be friends with this person! Beyond disappointed.