u/Ok_Algae2979

Lately I’ve been working on my intuition and physical energy and my relationships have been so different. I can immediately feel when someone is an energy vampire or just feels gross, and I feel bad because I’ve ended new friendships over it. I don’t say any of this to them to be nice of course, but its only gotten harder to ignore and most of the time it’s been correct judgement. I’ve felt plenty of good energy from people before too, so I know it isn’t projection (and I’m a recovering people pleaser.) I’m curious if you guys also deal with this? It’s been crazy how some people just feel terrible as soon as I’m near them, and then later do something that explains why they are lol.

Literally had my dad and sister say to my face that they want to “push my buttons to see how I’ll react,” but why tf do you want to make your family member upset, on purpose? Is your ego that crazy that it cant handle a person ignoring your crap? Being quiet and put together makes some people so insecure and mad lol.

My hairs been stubbornly at my chest for almost a year, Im probably due for a trim but there’s the irrational fear of them chopping too much(I’ve had that happen before and heard horror stories) so for those who have waist length hair and longer, any at home care tips to speed up the process? I just started using oils and wear it back when sleeping, but my hair is naturally oily so it doesn’t need much. My goal is to have waist length hair in another year at most so any help is appreciated!

My older sister(30F) is one of those “Golden Childs“ that thinks their more talented then they actually are. I don’t think her ego will let her ever truly succeed, she constantly needs attention and can’t handle being alone in any way. Everyone outside of our family (and some in it but are too afraid to tell her the truth) is drained by her and thinks she has the most awful diva personality. She has the maturity of a sixteen year old and everything is always about her, I can’t cut her off yet so I’m as low contact as possible. Anyone else have a similar sibling? How do you completely tune them out?