Toxic guy

I am saying this here cuz I really need to vent it out .. Me and a guy started texting and speaking in instagram, we were just friendly ..one day while we were on a call in insta ,the connection was very bad and thts when he gave his number and made me call him ( I was a 2nd yr mbbs student that time , just fresh after passing first year) . I was really so naive tht time and didn't even think ,I am just sharing my number with him. He used to call me literally whenever he likes and will speak and speak .. it was all good and suddenly after 15 days , he proposed me ( kinda manipulated me and dumb me said yes )..Tht guy is a IT employee in Chennai. After somedays , I realized I was not in love with him ,I just saw him as a friend and finally decided to say that and end ...thts when the tragedy began .. he changed into some other persona ... guy was saying he is gonna faint ,calling me repeatedly.. putting stories for close frnds ( tht appears in green ) like suicidal reels etc etc ...tht night I picked up the call and he manipulated me saying he is going to die and made me stay again ....again some days passed and I couldn't, I somehow got the confidence and decided to be strong to say no ...Then happened the worst thing I could ever imagine I cried, begged to leave me .. he was tht crazy tht he would blackmail tht he is going to come to my college, come to my home , ask for justice cuz I said no ...I blocked him and he made a female frnd of him talk to me ... it was hell... thn suddenly he came to my college ( without saying anything) and torturing me to come and see him ,if not he will not leave ..I went he said sorry and let's end ...little did I know it was a trap... dude just texted me saying he is going to his native and pretending like nothing happened ( idk how to explain this ).. my college is very strict in these things and glad I didn't get caught..this really caused me a lot of trauma like wht if he comes back again ..due to this fear mi used to attend and speak whenever he calls me .. my 2nd yr exams came and I said don't disturb me till exam , he did but sent me a gift straight to my college ( I was at home for study holidays)...the fear and agony I had to go through was terrible.. long story short this dec 2025 ,he called me , I was already in a bad mood tht day and tht helped me blast at him , from tht day he didn't call or txt me ...but tht guy is soo unpredictable tht I fear he is gonna send me something for my birthday which comes in 15 days... I have my 3rd yr exams coming, I couldn't even concentrate on anything apart from thinking wht is gonna happen..plz help

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u/Ok_Anybody_9154 — 3 days ago
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Toxic guy

I am saying this here cuz I really need to vent it out .. Me and a guy started texting and speaking in instagram, we were just friendly ..one day while we were on a call in insta ,the connection was very bad and thts when he gave his number and made me call him ( I was a 2nd yr mbbs student that time , just fresh after passing first year) . I was really so naive tht time and didn't even think ,I am just sharing my number with him. He used to call me literally whenever he likes and will speak and speak .. it was all good and suddenly after 15 days , he proposed me ( kinda manipulated me and dumb me said yes )..Tht guy is a IT employee in Chennai. After somedays , I realized I was not in love with him ,I just saw him as a friend and finally decided to say that and end ...thts when the tragedy began .. he changed into some other persona ... guy was saying he is gonna faint ,calling me repeatedly.. putting stories for close frnds ( tht appears in green ) like suicidal reels etc etc ...tht night I picked up the call and he manipulated me saying he is going to die and made me stay again ....again some days passed and I couldn't, I somehow got the confidence and decided to be strong to say no ...Then happened the worst thing I could ever imagine I cried, begged to leave me .. he was tht crazy tht he would blackmail tht he is going to come to my college, come to my home , ask for justice cuz I said no ...I blocked him and he made a female frnd of him talk to me ... it was hell... thn suddenly he came to my college ( without saying anything) and torturing me to come and see him ,if not he will not leave ..I went he said sorry and let's end ...little did I know it was a trap... dude just texted me saying he is going to his native and pretending like nothing happened ( idk how to explain this ).. my college is very strict in these things and glad I didn't get caught..this really caused me a lot of trauma like wht if he comes back again ..due to this fear mi used to attend and speak whenever he calls me .. my 2nd yr exams came and I said don't disturb me till exam , he did but sent me a gift straight to my college ( I was at home for study holidays)...the fear and agony I had to go through was terrible.. long story short this dec 2025 ,he called me , I was already in a bad mood tht day and tht helped me blast at him , from tht day he didn't call or txt me ...but tht guy is soo unpredictable tht I fear he is gonna send me something for my birthday which comes in 15 days... I have my 3rd yr exams coming, I couldn't even concentrate on anything apart from thinking wht is gonna happen..plz help

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u/Ok_Anybody_9154 — 4 days ago

Toxic guy

I am saying this here cuz I really need to vent it out .. Me and a guy started texting and speaking in instagram, we were just friendly ..one day while we were on a call in insta ,the connection was very bad and thts when he gave his number and made me call him ( I was a 2nd yr mbbs student that time , just fresh after passing first year) . I was really so naive tht time and didn't even think ,I am just sharing my number with him. He used to call me literally whenever he likes and will speak and speak .. it was all good and suddenly after 15 days , he proposed me ( kinda manipulated me and dumb me said yes )..Tht guy is a IT employee in Chennai. After somedays , I realized I was not in love with him ,I just saw him as a friend and finally decided to say that and end ...thts when the tragedy began .. he changed into some other persona ... guy was saying he is gonna faint ,calling me repeatedly.. putting stories for close frnds ( tht appears in green ) like suicidal reels etc etc ...tht night I picked up the call and he manipulated me saying he is going to die and made me stay again ....again some days passed and I couldn't, I somehow got the confidence and decided to be strong to say no ...Then happened the worst thing I could ever imagine I cried, begged to leave me .. he was tht crazy tht he would blackmail tht he is going to come to my college, come to my home , ask for justice cuz I said no ...I blocked him and he made a female frnd of him talk to me ... it was hell... thn suddenly he came to my college ( without saying anything) and torturing me to come and see him ,if not he will not leave ..I went he said sorry and let's end ...little did I know it was a trap... dude just texted me saying he is going to his native and pretending like nothing happened ( idk how to explain this ).. my college is very strict in these things and glad I didn't get caught..this really caused me a lot of trauma like wht if he comes back again ..due to this fear mi used to attend and speak whenever he calls me .. my 2nd yr exams came and I said don't disturb me till exam , he did but sent me a gift straight to my college ( I was at home for study holidays)...the fear and agony I had to go through was terrible.. long story short this dec 2025 ,he called me , I was already in a bad mood tht day and tht helped me blast at him , from tht day he didn't call or txt me ...but tht guy is soo unpredictable tht I fear he is gonna send me something for my birthday which comes in 15 days... I have my 3rd yr exams coming, I couldn't even concentrate on anything apart from thinking wht is gonna happen..plz help

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u/Ok_Anybody_9154 — 5 days ago