u/Ok_Chemist7541

Edit:Thank you for all the responses and advice. I really appreciate the positive attitudes you all presented me with (lord knows my heart can't handle anymore negativity right now) thank you for the affirmation most of all (not that I'll do anything with it other than feel less like im an issue) this thread did wonders for my mental health. Ive been off and on bawling like a baby so hard I was holding back puking for days. Just thank you all.

So my daughter is about 5 and a half, I've always been a very present father. I was lazy in the past and its my fault her mother left, thats all in the past though.

Recently I have been forced into a role of weekend dad, its not enough and its breaking me down. My daughter started kindergarten this year and i was not even allowed to see her off on her first day of school because of my child's mother and her boyfriend that she has been with for like 4 months and for whatever reason he doesn't want me around even tho I haven't done anything. I dont hit on her, im not rude, im honestly a really easy to get along with guy.

I was told by them that a schedule of Thursday night after school, to Sunday around 4pm is an unreasonable schedule for a child in school.

Not that this post will change their mind or anything, but do you guys feel that the schedule i proposed will mess up my daughters schooling as well? I feel like im missing everything. I had a really bad dad, and really bad stepdads. Being a good, present father is the most important thing to me by far. I just want to be in her life more than Friday after school to Sunday afternoon. I know its only one extra day, but it would mean the world to me and I know my daughter would love it too. I can confidently say she loves me just as much as her mother.

I would never try to take time away from them, I dont understand why they have spent the last half a year fighting with me to take as much as they can.

In my state you do not have automatic rights by being on the birth certificate, I placed myself on child support to try and get a set schedule at one point. But it bit me in the ass because the placed me on support but didn't give me any required visitation. So legally, I am aware I have no options. I suppose im asking for affirmation more than anything.

If its unreasonable of a schedule, heck maybe it will make me feel a bit better because in the end she is getting the best schedule she can. If it isnt unreasonable like I belive, then it at least confirms its done out of spite. Affirmations either way.

(There has been a lottttt more issues, everytime she dates someone something like this happens. Being with my daughter has been a fight from year one. Things were going good for a long time though, like 2 years of smooth co parenting) I cant afford a lawyer and im already on the waiting list for my states legal aid. I want to try and get as close to 50/50 custody as I can one day.

The amount of pro hitler propaganda lately is crazy, but on that same cloth its like they can't just say his name. Its absolutely always some implication of hitler without saying "hitler" with hundreds of heart reacts and anytime someone is like "man its insanely unpatriotic of you as an American citizen to praise hitler" they will get called a jew and get bashed like crazy (well not even a jew, because they also won't just say jew. They say things like coin clipper or something of the like)

Now with that said I dont necessarily give anymore fs about the Jewish peoples more than any other race or creed. It does not offend me specifically, im speaking on the influx of it in general though. (Heaven forbid you call the dude that just went on a pro hitler rant a nazi lover though or else your just a dumbass libtard with buzzwords)

(I am more right leaning myself)