u/Ok_Comfort_4594

(17F) confessed I lost feelings for a guy (18M) who later confessed his feelings for me, but I still find myself waiting for him and feeling jealous. How do I figure out what I actually want?

So for context, me and this guy — let's call him Y — are in the same class (I got into school early). Back in November last year, we were partners at a school function and naturally developed mutual feelings for each other. We used to talk for hours, voice calls, the whole thing.

Fast forward to January — he mentioned his ex, and it completely shattered the image I had of him. I'd seen him as this sweet, innocent guy (he'd literally shiver if he accidentally touched my hand, blush easily, you get the idea). Feeling deceived, I distanced myself. Finals came and I stopped attending school altogether for a while.

When the new session started in April and we were made project partners again, he straight up asked what happened and then confessed his feelings for me. I told him honestly that I'd lost mine and couldn't pretend otherwise.

But here's where I'm confused — despite saying that, I still wait for his texts. I get uncomfortable when he talks to other people. We talk on calls until 2 AM. I genuinely adore him. Yet my closest friends dislike him, and I know practically there's no future since I'm planning to move abroad for higher education.

So what is actually going on with me, and what should I do?

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u/Ok_Comfort_4594 — 10 days ago

(17F) confessed I lost feelings for a guy (18M) who later confessed his feelings for me, but I still find myself waiting for him and feeling jealous. How do I figure out what I actually want?

So for context, me and this guy — let's call him Y — are in the same class (I got into school early). Back in November last year, we were partners at a school function and naturally developed mutual feelings for each other. We used to talk for hours, voice calls, the whole thing.

Fast forward to January — he mentioned his ex, and it completely shattered the image I had of him. I'd seen him as this sweet, innocent guy (he'd literally shiver if he accidentally touched my hand, blush easily, you get the idea). Feeling deceived, I distanced myself. Finals came and I stopped attending school altogether for a while.

When the new session started in April and we were made project partners again, he straight up asked what happened and then confessed his feelings for me. I told him honestly that I'd lost mine and couldn't pretend otherwise.

But here's where I'm confused — despite saying that, I still wait for his texts. I get uncomfortable when he talks to other people. We talk on calls until 2 AM. I genuinely adore him. Yet my closest friends dislike him, and I know practically there's no future since I'm planning to move abroad for higher education.

So what is actually going on with me, and what should I do?

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u/Ok_Comfort_4594 — 10 days ago

Help guyss

I’m currently in 12th grade. Back in 11th, one of my teachers started targeting me a lot after I reported inappropriate behavior to the school administration. I’m very active in extracurriculars and I’m a classical dancer, so I was involved in a lot of school activities as well.

After the complaint, I noticed a major change in the way I was treated academically and during school events. Despite doing well throughout the year, I ended up receiving unexpectedly low marks in finals for that subject.

Later, during student council elections in 12th grade, my name was removed from the candidate list over attendance reasons. During voting, I received strong support from students, but the results were later dismissed and I lost the position.

Another student had a similar experience with the same teacher, although her situation turned out differently.

Some teachers later told me privately that this teacher may have influenced these decisions behind the scenes.

The whole situation has left me feeling humiliated and frustrated because it affected both my academics and opportunities in school. I’m mainly looking for advice from people who’ve dealt with unfair treatment from a teacher or authority figure in school. How did you handle it?

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u/Ok_Comfort_4594 — 13 days ago

Hacker help needed

Heyyy i know it's kinda evil but..i'm in 12th grade my principal took the head title from me cuz i was absent and i want her to payback... i want the title back...i want henr personal info so that i can blackmail her...it's not gonna be iilegal but please someone help

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u/Ok_Comfort_4594 — 13 days ago