Hi yall! Please message if interested.
The projector is a Formovie short throw laser projector. This is ideal for those that like projectors and understand a good projector is not cheap. My price is fair against its retail. Please do your research before messaging me. I would appreciate it!
Hi all - I am moving out of Delaware cross country.
I have a bunch of items that have been used for a year and they are quality items. Compared to the retail they’re a steal!
Please message me if you’re interested!
I have 2 mirrors
1 round circle mirror, perfect for an entry way
1 long large silver full body mirror
Sony Bravia 7 tv - price is realistic based off of market value.
Floating black led light console that can be arranged in different ways
King size terracotta / burnt orange color boneless couch with the ability to be leveraged as 2 twin size sleeping mattress or 1 large sleeping mattress
1 machine washable rug.
1 smaller jute style indoor rug
1 sound bar
1 writing desk with stool
3 high rise light grey chairs
2 hanging pendant lamps
1 queen sized mattress - used with mattress protector excellent condition.
1 entry way cabinet/shoe storage
6 pieces of art work
1 black stool
1 bronze circle couch level coffee table
1 shark vacuum
1 clear glass pot
Mixing bowl (multiple sizes) ideally looking to rid as a set
Air fryer
Pots and pans laddles and baking trays and blackstone type tray I can get rid of for free.
Please reach out to me with your best fair offer!
Hi all, I will be moving out and selling all things
This includes Sony tv, terracotta boneless Couch, queen mattress, rattan metal bedframe, 3 high rise chairs, misc. art decor, vases, machine washable rug, jute style indoor rugs.
All things are in excellent condition and used for a year.
Please reach out if interested and I can share images via DM.
Thanks!
Days ago I posted on Reddit about relationship issues. I broke up with him. However, I am reflecting on some of my own behavior and see that all of me was equally as wrong.
I feel I was wrong because I fought fire with fire. But I also have this issue in that relationship I would put down my pain to pick up and soothe the pain I caused him.
Then the other part of me was like well no - you tried talking patiently thru this over and over. All you asked for is connection. When it got ignored multiple times — and he became cruel, you responded with anger to his cruelty.
I mean straight up, I couldn’t even joke with him anymore with out hurting his feelings.. I couldn’t be goofy. I couldn’t be playful. I recently came across his post here about a night he fought and his version of things makes me realize he sees me as the bad guy. The way I see him… concern is he doesn’t tell a full picture. He picks and chooses little moments and blows that up like the full picture. I mean for crying out loud even his family says his version of events are never what happened. (In general)
Right now I’m feeling guilty? And feeling the need to apologize. It’s bizzare?? How thru everything somehow I sit with this guilt of “wait. I was messed up too”
Is my mind playing tricks on me?! Like wtf.
I got into a relationship with a person 6 years ago. The 6 years we have had together have been so tough for me. I can’t tell anymore what’s right or wrong. If I’m justified or not.
Given, i understand now that looking back he and I probably both jumped into this too fast too soon. He’s genuinely someone I love but I believe it’s a one way street due to the history of things.
We were originally long distance, I shifted and moved 2 hours away from home to be closer to him. We spent ALOT of money on Airbnb’s and at some point it basically became only me paying for them.. I decided to save money it’s better for us to come together and have a place for ourselves. We are going to do this anyways. We love each other bla bla bla. We discussed it and the circumstances and environment of my home life supported the move. It was probably better for my mental health to be away from home.
I come from a big family and a big city then I moved to bumble eff town population of like 2 ppl. That was such a difficult time for me to process. The change was too big for me and to be in a state with no one you know was scary. I worked remote at the time and I basically got 0 social interaction. All I had was essentially him.
The problems showed up immediately. He would come over to “our” place and stay for 2 weeks out of the month and those 2 weeks he’d spend drinking and literally just hanging out.
Slowly I started to complain about how I don’t feel noticed. I.e. he didn’t compliment me. He barely emotionally connected with me and thus I started bringing it up.
I also started to bring up this was our place and I wanted him to contribute. Not necc to the rent but here and there on groceries.
I also worked over time on my remote job to make extra money so that he’s not stuck always paying? I wanted to be fair to his income…
Me bringing up his lack of partnership always felt like to him as I can’t accept him. I’m super critical. We went thru the cycle of breaking up for half a day and getting back together.
Somehow bringing this lack of felt like an attack to him and it always lead to a fight. Fast forward - I then had to move again because I got a better offer for a different role. This first move and issues lasted for 5 months only.
I move to a new state and he helped me move and now on the weekends he’s travel 2hrs to visit me. When I moved to the new place I told him hey. This is a new start for us. Is there anything I can work on to make this relationship better. He said no.
Days later, we get into a huge fight because he insisted on drinking and driving my car when we were traveling somewhere at night. He yelled at me and told me I’m horrible person and I was yelling back because I didn’t feel safe with him driving. At this point I was at his parents home, with him visiting and that night he was essentially trying to get sexual despite me crying and telling him no. I was so uncomfortable. I have also gone thru my own childhood trauma around sexual abuse so this felt crushing to me.
The next day. I get up and quietly leave. I messaged him and said hey I think we need a break and he said we need to break up.
We broke up. That lasted 3 months. Some pathetic part of me was so desperate for his love that I begged and begged apologized for my terrible behavior and eventually we got back together.
When we got back together I asked him is there anything I need to know. He said nothing. I trusted him but a feeling kept creeping up. He finally admits during our break up he hooked up with other ppl. I was crushed but I already had a trip planned to Mexico for his birthday.
During our break up he also took a persons nudes and shared it with his friends. I found that so horrific. More than the fact he lied to me I was horrified he thought that was ok to do a woman….
Then we go to Mexico he checks out other women and essentially blames me for this… I bring up again feeling unloved. Unseen, small, I feel like he’s disgusted with me.
And he blames me for all this.
Clearly I took this. I chose this. So I can’t even get mad if ppl call me dumb.
Thru out all this he’s going thru an active addiction. Disappearing on me when he goes home (we live in different states at this point - he still lives w. His parents)
He goes thru a binging one night and even tho I’m mad at him. I drop everything to make sure he’s good.
So eventually he tells me wants me to go to a wedding with him. I say okay. He then switches his mind a week before the wedding saying he doesn’t want me to go? He wants to hang with his boys. Mind you all his boys are bringing their partner.. I thought that was so strange?
He then takes back what he said and I go to the wedding with him. Thru out the wedding he’s stiff with me. We get to a lounge after the wedding and the drinking starts heavily.
I asked him to not drink too much and he wasn’t listening.
Now he’s dancing with me and in my ear basically cursing and fighting with me.
Eventually we go to our hotel room and he’s cursing me again and saying all kinds of things about how I’m horrible. I swear this went on for hours. I was just looking at the pop corn ceiling hoping it would stop. Eventually I snapped and said STOP. I’m going to literally smack you. So he says do it I’ll call the cops. So I did, but I swear I lightly tapped his face.
He then calls the cops. I got scared. I’ve never been in trouble with the law. Ever? I txt his friends to come grab him and I spent hours crying because I felt so humiliated. It came to a point his friends partner asked me why are you with him.
He comes back in the room and starts laughing at me crying. His friend then stepped in and was like wtf dude? To him.. he then changed his demeanor and stopped laughing.
The next day I was still upset. Barely spoke to him and god we argued once we got home. All the shitty feelings of Mexico came back and my initial move and I said I’m not healed from this and now I have to deal with this hurt.
He took it all.. until another thing happened and the cycle repeated. I brought up everything and basically took every chance to curse him out cause of my hurt. Maybe that wasn’t right. But I also now looking back feel he never really did anything to let me heal.. it’s almost like he thought an apology and me reacting to a situation he caused made his actions ok.
He’s still at this point drinking in general and going mia on me. Not talking to me for days after an argument
Then I told him look we’ve been together for a while nothing is changing here and he started to drink again. Lost his decent paying job… because he showed up to work drunk and then decided to move in w me.
Over the last year. I have paid all his bills, and he thinks he’s changed because he helps cook and clean and hasn’t done those things again yet I’m still telling him I don’t feel intimacy from him. I don’t feel seen. I don’t feel loved but I feel I do my best to support him as a partner.
Today we fought again and essentially he told me he’s this way cause of how I treat him. He keeps saying atleast I didn’t do those things again .. and I’m still shocked at how he did it even once to begin with. These 3 things are not the only things, there’s a list but as I type this I do feel embarrassed of all of it out loud.
I am unsure what to think anymore. Can ppl like this change? Am I living in the past? Am I the problem?
There’s a lot of situations where with him I I feel like I don’t understand how this is love but all of me loves him.. how did I even get here.