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I (24F) cut off my friend (24F) of 15 years after she told me I need a reality check, life needs to smack me in the face and she’s praying on my downfall.
I recently graduated with my postgrad degree and have started my job in research.
My friend and I were looking for weekends away to go and celebrate me securing a job and my qualification, while looking we ended up having a disagreement as she was being picky about where we went and I said this is to celebrate my achievements so I don’t think it’s fair she’s having so much say on where we go.
She then replies saying “you need to have a reality check and I can’t wait for life to smack you straight in the face, I pray on that day and your downfall”
My response to that was “you have no qualifications and work in a job you hate”
I cut off the friendship there and then, she’s now telling people that I was horrible to her and shit on her life.
Am I the asshole?
EDIT*
For a bit of background and context, a few people mentioned about money and the argument wasn’t about money it was about the location, I was driving and she wanted to go places which were 4+ hours away and I didn’t want to drive that far, and she wouldn’t stay in places that had below 5 stars, we both had agreed on a budget and was sticking to that.
Comments were made earlier in the friendship throughout my studies where she would laugh when I had a grade I wasn’t too pleased about or “you think your better than everyone because you go to university”
I have never been that type of person and have always said if you don’t need it for the job you want to do it’s not worth putting yourself on the debt as there’s a lot of jobs you can get without a degree.
There is an update in comments
I (27 F) have been friends with (27 F) for nearly 20 years.
In this time we have literally been side by side through everything, we’ve had ups and downs and had years where we’ve not spoken but always come back closer than ever, at this point we are practically family.
In the last maybe 2 years I’ve started to feel our friendship is very one sided.
For background I am an introvert and won’t force friendships with people for the sake of having a big group of friends, I have a very small group of friends and honestly enjoy my own company a lot.
My friend is a bit of a friend collector and will stay friends with people who have done her so wrong just to keep her friendship number high, which she consistently talks bad about all these people to me and my response is always why are you still friends with them then?
I suppose we’ve kinda grown into 2 very different people but we’ve been friends for way too long to separate.
I feel like recently she only sees me when none of her other friends are available and even when we’re together she’ll ring her other friends. We went on holiday last year and the day we got back she booked a trip with her other 3 friends and at the villa she kept speaking on the phone saying she just want to come home now and see them. When she’s with them she just completely leaves me out of the conversation and basically pretends I’m not there, which can get really awkward on birthdays when all of us are there and when I try joining in the conversation I’m just kinda pushed out and they all started shouting over me.
But when she’s alone and not talking to them she goes on about how I am her best friends and literally nothing can come between us and the way she is with me she could never be with anyone else. I disagree.
she is genuinely my best friend and I love spending time with her but I can’t help but feel I am being pushed to the side at times, I have mentioned this to her recently but she doesn’t see it.
Am I being dramatic and maybe more clingy as I don’t speak to as many people and wouldn’t be friends with people I didn’t actually like? or is this a one sided friendship?