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today is one of those days where i feel too depressed to even stand up. can hardly read the quran, nor can i pray more than the usual fard, tahajud feels so heavy. i just want to lay in bed and scroll. i don’t want to hear the this too shall pass, allah is testing you, there is a plan you can’t see, maybe this is not in your naseeb.

i am tired. i just want things to work for me

Hello brothers and sisters,

I have been feeling very dejected and demotivated recently. I was supposed to wed my fiance but things turned messed and now the future is very uncertain. For 2 weeks I was depressed, I couldn’t eat, couldn’t sleep, I would wake up with pain in my chest. My relationship with Allah had never been too great but I have seen a silver lining in my circumstances, as I have turned to God fully. I pray on time, I perform Tahajud daily, I recite Quran, do dikhr everything.

However, I am also human. While I have been praying for a union with my fiance, things have been very slow in the material world. The past 2-3 days I was feeling very demotivated, to the point that I really had to force myself to even pray. I still reached for my mat and prayed 4 rakat tahajud. Before that I was reciting Surah Yasin - I have been told it helps with blessings in these matters - and just as I finished it was Fajr time. My grandmother prays with me and she had put on a Quranic lecture on her phone which she had paused before performing Fajr. I too began with the Fard rakat, however, mid prayer the video she was watching unpaused and a Yotube ad started playing - queuing the next video was about to play. We both were in salah and didn’t want to break it so we let the phone play. What happened next is crazy to me - maybe I am being delusional, if I am do tell me - as soon as I said my salams the next video that started playing was Surah Yasin. Out of 114 surahs in the Quran, and the entire algorithm what are the odds that Surah I was praying to solve my problem would start playing?

As soon as I heard this I literally broke into to tears in Sujood, laughing and crying thanking Allah. It felt comforting to know that maybe all is not lost. Anyways please keep me in your prayers and let me know do you think I’m being delusional?

pls lmk i will pray for you i am going through a terrible time. will dm u the duas

so i have fallen madly in love with a man. i know it feels silly to say, but we were in the process of getting married. however, things got messy and complicated (my fault) and now he’s saying the chances of us getting married are slim. i love him and i truly think i have changed drastically, gotten closer to allah, and rerouted my life. i can’t imagine living a life with anyone else but him, can you guys please pray for our blessed marriage and a smooth transition into this phase without any external meddling. i will keep you in my prayers too just please ya allah knows how much i want this.

curious to see

i’ve been facing harassment and blackmail from a man for over 2 months. i’ve been hesitant to take legal action as he is threatening to leak my private chats with my fiance. however i am scared if i take legal action then my very religious family will be involved and things is sexual + substance nature will come out and they will honour kill me (i am 20)

https://www.reddit.com/r/PakistanLawyers/s/8Ddgb7lMqF

the threats have increased. he messaged pictures of me with substances to people in my circle. the next day he emailed me. then today he threatened me more saying everything is fair game and he will go to any extent. FIA is saying they might have to involve parents I cant do that they will honour kill me. I can’t have it go to court but he isn’t stopping he has gone on and I feel like killing myself. please someone help me. what do i do how do i not involve my family please please. his family is also connected i don’t know what that will do to me i am a girl its my izzat im so fucked please help me

i am being harassed and stalked by this man i had a brief fling with it. i am so sick of him. he is mentally unstable and i can’t even take legal action or he will harm me. please someone help me i am so done.

for the past 2 months i’ve been getting threatened, blackmailed, abused and harassed by this man i had a relationship with a while back. he keeps texting people in my life, my friends etc and sharing pictures of me threatening to leak our chats (which have confidential stuff etc) if i don’t get him in my life. while i’ve been trying to ignore him the intensity of it has just increased i just wanted to ask what is the right legal approach to take. their family is connected and i don’t know if any action will avail anything. they have been physically abusive in the past and i think i have chats that allude to that, but i also want them to stop contacting people in my life as a whole. it’s impacting my personal relationships and just my daily activities. i tried the communication route and that has availed nothing instead i’ve been threatened further more people in my life have been reached out and they are making it a messy public affair. they are also very unstable so idk what legal action will do if it isn’t binding and quick. his dad is also fairly corrupt and has loop holes for things so idk

for the past 2 months i’ve been getting threatened, blackmailed, abused and harassed by this man i had a relationship with a while back. he keeps texting people in my life, my friends etc and sharing pictures of me threatening to leak our chats (which have confidential stuff etc) if i don’t get him in my life. while i’ve been trying to ignore him the intensity of it has just increased i just wanted to ask what is the right legal approach to take. their family is connected and i don’t know if any action will avail anything. they have been physically abusive in the past and i think i have chats that allude to that, but i also want them to stop contacting people in my life as a whole. it’s impacting my personal relationships and just my daily activities. i tried the communication route and that has availed nothing instead i’ve been threatened further more people in my life have been reached out and they are making it a messy public affair. they are also very unstable so idk what legal action will do if it isn’t binding and quick. his dad is also fairly corrupt and has loop holes for things so idk

https://www.reddit.com/r/manifestingSP/s/FR5PRcQXhi

What can I do? What should I do to make us reunite.

as the text says i fucked up. i cheated on my SP and confessed and now he wants to go no contact. he says he can’t get over it and we should go our own ways but maybe we can talk in 6 months but i shouldn’t have expectations. i love him so much i fucked up i was fuckinf stupid and i hate myself for it. i don’t know what to do to get him back he wants NC but i’ve been blowing up his chat for 4 days sending him so many frenzied texts. he hasn’t blocked me but im so scared he will leave what do i do i need help and advice please please i love him so much we were going to get married and. i fucked it. i’ve been doing affirmations for 2-3 days and i know it’s not enough but i just can’t help think what if he leaves me

i have never been more depressed in my life. i had a loving partner of 3 years but i made a mistake a terrible one and now they have left my life - at least for now. i have no energy to eat. to go to the gym. to meet people. to do anything i love. ontop of that im getting black mail threats from a crazy man who doesn’t leave me alone and is forcing his way into my life. i can’t show up at my job, at my work, at school. i just feel so tired. i want my partner back, i want my happiness back, i want my spark back.

i was due to get married in december. however i made a massive mistake. now my partner is saying they can’t get over it and we should go our separate ways. the pain is so sharp i feel like it is piercing me with every breath i take. i just want them back. please share duas or anything i can do. i know ultimately what allah wills will happen but any tips or advice on how i can change my naseeb