I need advice.

So for context, for as long as I can remember, I've always used self deprecating humor and always use very negative self talk because of where I grew up abused and bullied and just always talked down to by everyone and just got used to using it as a means of diffusing uncomfortable situations.

However, I'm tired of allowing people to disrespect me and talk down to me and then turning it against myself.

So my question is what advice would you give when it comes to setting boundaries and not allowing people to talk down to me and then turning it against myself?

Thank you in advance for any wisdom and advice!

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u/Okaj_eckin — 16 hours ago

How do I manifest?

So I've always struggled with manifesting because it feels like I have to be "delusional" to achieve it. Which to me being delusional I feel like implies I don't actually believe it. Which feels contradictory.

But also I don't want anything insane or out of reach, I just want to manifest financial stability, to be able to financially support myself well enough to have food and to be okay.

I'm currently struggling due to losing my job and not being able to hold down a job. I just want to be able to attract the job or career that is meant for me that will allow me to just live.

I currently have no job, no money, no car, no food, and I still live with my parents... I'm miserable and I have no one to turn to... I'm tired of struggling and being miserable.. I just want to be able to tell people that I'm doing good for myself for once.

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u/Okaj_eckin — 1 day ago

Pray for me

I could use more prayers.. I was let go from another job and I'm struggling again.. life just seems to keep knocking me down... I really need prayers.

My name is Jakob just in case you needed my name for the prayer to work

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u/Okaj_eckin — 28 days ago

I can't login to Cashapp on mew phone.

So I got a new phone today. It's the moto g 2026. This is the message it gives me on my new phone. How do I get into my cash app on my new phone?

u/Okaj_eckin — 2 months ago

So lately I have found myself feeling lonely and isolated and wanting new friends. I want friends who sincerely and authentically value real friendships and genuinely enjoy spending time with people they see as "friends".

I want friends who go out of their way to reach out to me to initiate quality time. My love language is Quality time.

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u/Okaj_eckin — 2 months ago