u/Old-Assistance-2017

First, I would like to say this is the first time I've had success with being granted my nightly upgrade request for a multiple night stay. We went from a standard king room to a one bedroom suite. The added perk of this room is the additional half bathroom in the entryway. The room overall was in need of some repairs, we had no hot water in the half bath, the wallpaper was peeling and there was some old water damage in the main bathroom that was not fixed. Multiple light bulbs were out. Housekeeping changed our towels, however, they only left us with two bath towels and one hand towel. We had to use the only hand towel as a bath mat since they took that but never replaced it. I tried to request towels thru the App messenger only for the FDA to advise they didn't have a password for the app to use it.

I understand this was formally a Ritz Carlton, but it is definitely lacking in a lot of areas.

The valet is a 3rd party vendor and they are absolutely miserable. When we first arrived, we told them we were checking in and needed help with our luggage. As soon as we turned our back, they had already taken the car down into the parking garage, so we got our keys and had to have the car called back again for our bags.

The hotel advertises that there is the "Opus Lounge" where you can get drinks and small bites. Come to find out, the lounge has not been open since November 2025. It is only used until 1pm for breakfast. If you want a cocktail, you have to get them from the Red Horse restaurant which is attached to the hotel. Speaking of breakfast, it was abysmal. We have experienced a lot of really nice breakfast buffets, however, this one was worse than a Residence Inn. For a whopping total of $79 there were eggs, bagels, bacon, sausage, smoked salmon and a small bowl of assorted fruit. No hot sauce, cheese, cereal, muffins, etc. The juice was self serve as well and we were not offered water nor could we find it on our own.

I voiced my concerns directly to Marriott but I wanted to give my honest opinion for anyone wanting to stay at a "luxury" hotel in White Plains 5/10.

My husband and I have been together for nearly a decade. We have had our struggles personally, but being intimate is a huge deal for me.

Like most couples in the beginning we were very active in the bedroom. As time progressed it slowed down. I find my husband extremely attractive and the him all the time he’s the most attractive I’ve ever been with. He checks all my boxes, except when it comes to sex.

I knew in the beginning he was pretty vanilla (fine I can live with that) and it wasn’t a deal breaker for me. However, he has a hard time finishing. He is not on antidepressants, doesn’t smoke, hardly drinks. I asked about porn usage and I made it clearly I am pro-porn. I watch it. I didn’t care if he did but he claimed he never really did. For years it has been the same.

Recently, he looses his erection after only a minute or two of going at it. This is a new phenomenon. Now, on top of only finishing maybe once out of every ten times, he can’t stay hard. I feel defeated. I tried to talk to him but was shut down. Is it porn? Is it me? I’ve tried everything in my bag of tricks and nothing seems to work. I don’t think he’s cheating on me. Could it be related to low T? Any ideas or tips would be appreciated. I’m at a loss and it makes me so sad.