u/One_Tell_7015

In our parenting plan we both get 3 or 4 weeks vacation with our son per year. I am wanting to take my son on a vacation at the end of December which would land on his weekend. So he says no, he won’t let me take him. I have offered to trade my weekend the week beforehand but he refuses to have a discussion or even talk about it. He says I should plan the vacation so my son misses school. I don’t agree that he should miss school unless he is sick.

I feel like taking him weekend days vs weekdays on our scheduled days shouldn’t matter. He has taken him on two trips in the last year and I haven’t taken any.

So I have said if I can’t take him on my days, you can’t take him on mine. Which he only has a 3 day stretch at the longest. Right now I am feeling like I will have to settle this in court and I feel like it’s absolutely ridiculous.

My baby is 4 months old and still wakes several times a night. Every two hours, sometimes every 1 He wants to nurse for long periods, my boyfriend drives OTR and is gone several nights and when he is home he’s so exhausted that he’s not a ton of help, understandably so. I feel like I get so anxious and get in these awful spirals I can’t get out of. Just crying all the time into panic attacks. I did some grounding exercises earlier but I feel like I’m losing my mind. I am safe, baby is safe. Just need a community to vent to.

I am currently on Zoloft and Buspar and finally treating my ADHD with concerta but unsure if my dose is high enough because I feel a crash in the middle of the day.

I thankfully was able to extend my mat leave for PPD… but I have no clue how I’m going to return to work when I’m not sleeping and I’m so overly anxious.

My baby is 4 months old and still wakes several times a night. Every two hours, sometimes every 1 He wants to nurse for long periods, my boyfriend drives OTR and is gone several nights and when he is home he’s so exhausted that he’s not a ton of help, understandably so. I feel like I get so anxious and get in these awful spirals I can’t get out of. Just crying all the time into panic attacks. I did some grounding exercises earlier but I feel like I’m losing my mind. I am safe, baby is safe. Just need a community to vent to.

I am currently on Zoloft and Buspar and finally treating my ADHD with concerta but unsure if my dose is high enough because I feel a crash in the middle of the day.

I thankfully was able to extend my mat leave for PPD… but I have no clue how I’m going to return to work when I’m not sleeping and I’m so overly anxious.