u/Oopsielily

We barely liked each other. Idc what you’re doing with your life now. I wouldn’t be jealous if you had another partner. I don’t care at all. What I do care about is our son. Our perfect little boy who you haven’t even seen take steps. You never heard him speak. You deprived your son of a father. YOU decided to abandon him after 10 months. I never stopped you seeing him, I never pushed you away or made it difficult, I always put importance on you two having a relationship. You disappeared. Neither of us had a dad growing up, I thought you’d know better. I saw you be a wonderful dad to your older son, however that led to you ditching ours on Christmas and even his 1st birthday to be with your other kid. Although this isn’t your oldest son’s fault, he is a genuinely lovely, kind, smart little boy… so is ours. He’s so funny, he’s silly, he’s a handful but oh my god he’s the smartest toddler I’ve ever met. He’s not even 3 yet and can count to 50, he can read and spell, he’s super advanced with maths, he knows his 2 AND 3 times tables. And you’re missing it. And when he starts to ask about why he doesn’t have a dad and it makes him feel not worth and not good enough, it will be your fault. Not mine. I give everything to our boy and I do it with a smile. Fuck you. You can rot in hell for all I care.

Hi all, had my assessment and thought I did really well after practicing for months and having a nice assessor was quite confident. I got 0 points. Pretty much said that because I was a solo parent and take care of my kids it means I cannot have any sort of issues, no evidence. So I went ham, I have had 4 friends and family write up statements, a personal statement, evidence of welfare support, evidence of debt, evidence from my link worker, proof od defaults, proof of every diagnosis, and waiting lists, scores I’ve been given to be put on lists, ect. I’m just wondering if they actually care and check the new evidence before making a decision? I’m so anxious man :/

Hi all, I’m a single parent of 2. My eldest is 2.5 and my youngest is 1. I’m a bit worried about how my eldest’s dad has no involvement with him at all, he’s completely ghosted me and hasn’t replied to a single text since just before his 1st birthday. I worry about the impact this may have on him in the long run. Both of my brothers who have children are in relationships that live together and my youngest’s dad is super involved. My youngest’s dad absolutely adores my eldest too but he doesn’t go over to his house or anything (even tho he constantly asks if he can go). Is there any way I can help him ? I just want to avoid him feeling less than :(