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Try to guess something about my family

my sister is older than me

also i have no real idea what my sisters enneagram type is since she hates being typed and says things like “people don’t fit in boxes so don’t try to fit me into a box”

if you want some help/context:

>!my dad is a workaholic!<

>!everything centers around my mom!<

>!my sister is married and moved out now but you can still guess for what things were like!<

>!i’m known as the person who shakes everything up and i force everyone to expand their ideas and understandings!<

>!my brother is probably the healthiest and best person in the family!<

u/Opening_Usual4946 — 11 hours ago

Does this make sense?

I’m definitely iffy on big five and i’m not 100% on psychosophy so i’m open to ideas especially in those realms, but i’m 10000% certain i’m ISFJ and im very certain that im all my enneagram stuff

u/Opening_Usual4946 — 12 days ago

Learners of Wasona

I’ve been wondering, if you learned through wasona or you’re learning through wasona, what are y’all’s opinions of it, is it a great learning resource?

also if you’ve tutored someone who learned through wasona, what were your opinions of it and what did it do that you wish it did differently

i’m currently working with a friend to teach another friend toki pona and we want to find the best lesson plan and we realized that we never once heard any reviews of wasona which is a well known and popular new learning plan

o toki pona!

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u/Opening_Usual4946 — 18 days ago

19NB looking for qpr

Hiii, i’m 19NB and i’m looking for people in the 18-22 age range but with a hard limit on 24 (big maybe if at all on that limit)

i officially consider myself to be a transneutral demiboy and i use they/he pronouns rn. I consider myself gay/achillean and would prefer to meet other neutral/masculine enbies/men but i also consider myself to be partially pan too so idk, if you wanna shoot your shot im maybe open, i am strictly monogamous and i ask that if we come to be in a proper qpr, that you stay monogamous as well, but once again, im open a little bit so we can always have a discussion, but sometimes i get a bit worried if i feel my closest friends like someone else more than they like me

i would heavily prefer an in-person relationship but since i know thats highly unlikely, i am also pretty open to long (ish) distance. Id prefer it if you have a similar time zone and anything greater than 4 hours difference might be too much. I live in Oklahoma City (CDT, UTC-5).

in the picture, i feel i maybe ought to clarify that maybe = im iffy but could be talked into it, yeah = i don’t necessarily care and am open to it or i kinda want it but its not important important, yes = requirement and if youre not willing to do that then this probably ain’t gonna work out, and no = absolutely not gonna happen unless some big changes happen

some things about me:

I’m an ISFJ 9w1 sp/sx 974. thats all my typology stuff and if you’re care for it there you go if not then ignore it. I’m super into typology, i like to make my own theories and test them and understand things fully, if you don’t understand please ask me about it, i’d also love to type you. I like to consider myself a big nerd. I find people who are capable of nerding out as being cool people so if you dm me, maybe tell me about some of your nerdy passions

im also super into linguistics and have learned a constructed language known as toki pona (it’s a cool language with only 120 words). I’m also learning spanish, ASL, and esperanto.

i loveee cats and dogs, they’re both so adorable, but i like to send cat memes and cat pics and all that good stuff, half of my feed on insta is cats

i’m in a lot of fandoms, i like anime a lot so i like jjk, hxh, darwin’s game, magi, mha, solo leveling, and a bunch more prolly, and in non anime i like tadc (im not a crazy fan i promise), interview with a vampire, ok i swear i love practically a little of everything but i can’t remember anything besides what i watched like this week.

im sometimes quiet so i may not always be great at keeping conversations lively, and sometimes i need social breaks as i have a very limited social battery so if i do a bunch of social stuff with others i may be running on fumes

im not a major fan of text based relationships only or digital relationships in general, but i can and do have great relationships with some of my best friends in only online based interactions

i should probably mention that i have good reason to believe i may have adhd and autism but only peer reviewed so i may not be

what im looking for in you

i would like someone who is a little more extroverted if possible but again im open to chit chat with those more introverted folks (im an introverted folks).

i should mention that im extremely grossed out by kissing so if thats a need for you, i wont be able to help you (assuming we ever see each other in person), i should also mention i dont like talking about politics so i probably won’t be your outlet for those discussions

idk, im super open, please don’t be a jerk, please don’t be bigoted (shouldn’t be a problem here but who knows), please have loads of empathy and compassion, please be okay that nuance exists in the world, please don’t be secretly manipulative

if you have any questions or concerns, feel free to ask, my dms should be open

u/Opening_Usual4946 — 19 days ago
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Types of Complements

Complements are types where they are different from another type and so push the person to grow/change, but have enough similarities that they have some common ground to work with so they don’t feel alien to each other

Structure Complements

a complement that shares similarities by being in the same structure (structures are what i call types that follow the same pattern, IXXJs, IXXPs, EXXJs, and EXXPs are the four structures)

jungian/paired/doorway complement

the paired complement is when the dominant and inferior functions are the same, but the two doorway functions are different (doorway functions is what i call the auxiliary and tertiary function as they are related and stand next to each other)

ex: NiFeTiSe & NiTeFiSe, FiNeSiTe & FiSeNiTe, SeTiFeNi & SeFiTeNi

anti-jungian/gap/unpaired complement

the gap complement is when the auxiliary and tertiary functions are the same, but the dominant and inferior functions are different

ex: SiFeTiNe & NiFeTiSe, TeSiNeFi & FeSiNeTi, NeFiTeSi & SeFiTeNi

true structure complement

the true structure complement is when none of your functions are the same, but you share the same underlying structure

ex: SiTeFiNe & NiFeTiSe, TiNeSiFe & FiSeNiTe, NeTiFeSi & SeFiTeNi

Quadra Complements

a complement that shares similarities by being in the same quadra

Flip Complement

the flip complement is when one type is the introverted or extroverted version of the other, aka their functions flip from the middle

ex: SiFeTiNe & FeSiNeTi, FiSeNiTe & SeFiTeNi, TiNeSiFe & NeTiFeSi

Grip/Swap Complement

the swap complement is when a type’s tertiary and inferior functions are the other type’s dominant and auxiliary functions respectively, aka one types grip block and primary blocks are swapped in the other person

ex: SeTiFeNi & FeNiSeTi, TeSiNeFi & NeFiTeSi, FiNeSiTe & SiTeFiNe

Reverse/Backwards/Opposite/Mirror Complement

the reverse complement is when one type’s inferior function is the other type’s dominant function and their tertiary function is the others auxiliary, aka they are opposites or reversed orders of each other

ex: SeFiTeNi & NiTeFiSe, NeTiFeSi & SiFeTiNe, TiSeNiFe & FeNiSeTi

Order Complements

a complement that shares similarities by using the same or similar order (order is sharing things like being a sensor, a thinker, a feeler, and/or an intuitive)

Inverse/Shadow Complement

the inverse complement is when you share the exact same order, but each function is the inverse version of the same base

ex: SiTeFiNe & SeTiFeNi, NeTiFeSi & NiTeFiSe, FiSeNiTe & FeSiNeTi

Swapped-Inverse Complement

the swapped-inverse complement is when you inverse all your functions and the flip them from the middle

ex: SiTeFiNe & TiSeNiFe, NeFiTeSi & FeNiSeTi, TiNeSiFe & NiTeFiSe

there are more, but these are the ones that i’ve mapped out, i’m welcome to discussion, if you have an idea that you want to share, go ahead

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u/Opening_Usual4946 — 1 month ago

doing the trend

this is my go at the trend with Kamél, the sentences really don’t map very well onto english, especially the last one. Here’s a rough translation of each Kamehl sentence.

  1. You (what) (want) to have fun?

  2. The blue big table coffee-esque be/is unmoving

  3. (Now) we live with good-weather of three days

u/Opening_Usual4946 — 1 month ago

For the “others”, what are you really?

the standard in this sub is that when things get gendered there are three options “m” “f” and “other” (or some variation that is similar to this), but what are yall really?

options:
I am a boy or girl/results
I am nonbinary
I am intersex
I am unsure if my gender
I am multigendered/gender fluid
other (comment your answer)

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u/Opening_Usual4946 — 1 month ago

Let’s see some demographics

we usually see some form, but hopefully this will give us a better idea of exactly the kinds of people we’re seeing on here

edit: for clarification as i forgot to define these terms (they are common and proper terms, however i forget that many people are unaware of these things)

AMAB= assigned male at birth

AFAB= assigned female at birth

“cis man/boy”= you are AMAB and identify as a man/boy

“cis woman/girl”= you are AFAB and identify as a woman/girl

“trans man/boy”= you are AFAB and transitioned to life as a man/boy

“trans woman/girl”= you are AMAB and transitioned to life as a woman/girl

“enby (AMAB)”= you are AMAB and transitioned to life as neither man/boy or as a woman/girl

“enby (AFAB)”= you are AFAB and transitioned to life as neither a man/boy or as a woman/girl

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u/Opening_Usual4946 — 1 month ago

Question about tritype

I believe im a 954, but when reading further into 5, i keep finding that i don’t relate to the core fears/desires at all, but all the descriptions of how they generally act seem very like me, i’ve been typed as a 5 almost every time i take a test and the last time i came on here as a 5. I learned through learning resources that im pretty much definitely a 9. Am i actually a five in my tritype or am i actually something else entirely. Are fives maybe more nuanced than just “scared of being useless/helpless/incapable” cause i could care less, i do all the fivey things out of fun and desire for mental stimulation

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u/Opening_Usual4946 — 2 months ago