u/Optimugetti_iol

Does marriage work without attraction?

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I have been dating my bf for sometime now,its a long distance one and we have never met in person. I like him in every aspect. He is perfect for me in everyway but he is a little skinny and I am fat.He is 46 kg and I am 65 kg. He is good looking, but he eats very less. I told him that we should both work on our body and I started working out.He even accepts it, since I mentioned it 4,5 times he felt like he wasnt attractive and told me that i should find a guy that is big and tall who matches me.He told me marriages without attraction fail and our relationship will also fail in sometime.Tbh, I was not very much into him lookwise, but i also dont dislike him. I like his personality and kindness. But now he wants to end it and be friends. I am so confused right now.

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u/Optimugetti_iol — 2 days ago

Why are private school teachers paid so less?

Private school la ellam lacks kanakula fees vanguranga lkg ke, but teachers ku kudukurathu ennavo 10k,20 k per month. Ithula extra classes vera. Teachers ellam kothadima mari vela pakaranga. Pasanga kitta kasa pudunga vitha vithamana techniques ellam use panranga ana oru student kitta vangara kasa kooda mulusa oru teacher ku tharathilla, and government um itha kandukara mari theriyala. Is there any solution to this stupidity?

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u/Optimugetti_iol — 8 days ago

My gf never accepts gifts or money

I have been dating my gf for 6 months. Its a long distance relationship. Once in the beginning , after about 20 days since I met her, we were just friends and she asked for 1000 rs and I asked her what for and when will you return it, she slightly got pissed and said she will manage it. At that point of time i had no intentions of dating her.From that incident she never asks for money, even when i try to gift her something she tells me to cancel it or pays me the money. But she has gifted me things. When I asked her she said she dosent wanna be a gold digger.This has been disturbing me a lot, is it ok or will it cause problems?

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u/Optimugetti_iol — 14 days ago

I am going to buy my first branded watch and the budget is 3k. Can someone suggest best brands for women watches and how to select good ones and which brands to avoid?

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u/Optimugetti_iol — 16 days ago

I met my boyfriend online five months ago and we have been together since. He is living in Delhi and looking for a job in bangalore. I saw a reddit post of a guy working in a company he wants to work, so I asked him for Referrals and pechu konjam valanthu pochu. I cut him off immediately and told my bf about the guy. Na mulusa solli mudikarathuku munnadiye he started doubting me. Na referral tha ketten nu sonnalum, unaku avana pudikala athanala pecha mathita nu soldran. I shared him screenshots, apram tha konjam samathanam anan. Ana na irukumbothu mathavanga kooda pearathum cheating tha nu soldran. Enakku veruppa pochu. Should i keep talking to him, make him understand illaa oruthadava thappa nenacha nenachathuthan nu vitutu pogava?

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u/Optimugetti_iol — 20 days ago
▲ 19 r/islam

I am a Hindu and I have many Muslim friends and each of them practice islam differently. I want to know what makes someone a Muslim.

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u/Optimugetti_iol — 23 days ago