u/Ornery_Low_6580

For someone whose entire account revolves around “Being yourself” and being understanding of kids who struggle with ARFID, autism, etc., Michelle really does an awful job moderating H’s comments. There are grown adults on here bullying this poor child and Michelle doesn’t even defend her, let alone delete it. This was on a video of H’s outfits which always draw in bullies and people making fun of her. I am CONVINCED that Michelle posts these videos on purpose to draw engagement, even though the majority of it is from bullies. Why she doesn‘t turn off the comment section is beyond me. She is a narcissist who knows no limits and will do anything to exploit and profit off of her daughter.

“I won’t be going into details out of respect for his privacy”, but Michelle is okay with sharing all of her minor kids’ diagnoses, where they go to school, and posting H eating online? She is so backwards.

“Sacrifice their bodies”, “fight for everyone”…mind you she’s literally talking about high school football and dramatizing it to try and defend herself after she got backlash for the football video.
There’s a a time and a place for everything and if her sons really were being scouted for a D1/college football team, then she needs to sit down. Saying she is the coach isn’t an excuse .

ETA: i saw her in the comments saying she is a “hype coach”. Is this even a thing at HS football games?😅 genuinely asking.

normally, I would never snark on someone for complaining about cost of living because things ARE more expensive, however, they just planned their fifth pregnancy in 5 years. I mean…kids aren’t cheap, especially as they get older.

For anyone who doesn’t know her, she is pregnant with her fifth baby at 23 years old for the fifth year in a row. In the past, she also has complained about her husband not working as much as he could and her being the breadwinner of the family through social media.

feel free to comment if you feel otherwise or if there’s something I’m missing here. I’m neurodivergent myself as well and I know autism isn’t commonly diagnosed in girls.

Michelle posted a video of the signs of autism H had prior to being diagnosed vs. the common symptoms that H did not have. honestly, I feel like a lot of what Michelle said are regular characteristics of being a typical child. yes, people with autism do have special interests, but neurotypical kids also go through phases of being interested in one or two things in particular. Same thing with struggling with change- almost every child has a hard time adapting to new things. Also, the sensory issues can easily be attributed to ARFID. I know autism is a spectrum, but Michelle was told TWICE that H did not have it, until a third doctor diagnosed her. She also goes on to state that H is a model student with lots of friends and met all of her milestones on time.
Again, if there are any other neurodivergent or autistic girls that would like to input their thoughts on this, I’d appreciate that :)

I’m not sure if it’s rage bait at this point, but why does she call their spending money “allowance”? It’s fine if they have a budget for personal expenses/leisure, but when they call it “allowance”, it makes it sound like they’re little kids being given money by their parents.

Literally how stupid can Michelle be?? She tagged her kids’ school on Instagram. is she not worried that pdfs and stalkers can show up and try to harm her children. First, leaving comments up threatening her family and name-calling H, and now posting their school. I have never seen a more careless mother than her.

I’m not sure why so many influencers are doing this now…posting videos of expensive hauls, shopping, spending, etc., but then making it seem like they’re struggling in other posts. Anybody else have thoughts on this?

this is her income prior to bills and expenses. she then says her income/pay is around $2,100 which isn’t enough for a “full time income”.

Who is going to tell her that’s not how money and spending works? $2,100 after bills is LOT of money. That’s life- you pay bills and see how much you have leftover. She is trying to so hard trying to make herself sound impoverished by stating her “take home pay” instead of focusing on the fact she made almost $5,000 in one month. I’m so glad that the comments called her out on it.

i wonder how she is going to employ SAHMs to bring in income from home? She is asking people to “max out” on the link, which will fund this new business. I’m not too sure how she’s in a position to pay out others when she constantly complains about not having enough income for her own family. It‘s not that she brings in decent income that annoys people, it’s that she pretends to relate to low-income households when her actions and spending habits say otherwise.

23 years old and pregnant with her fifth kid. I have nothing against big families, but she’s been teasing a potential pregnancy for awhile and shutting down anyone who called her out on it . They’re in the process of moving and want to save money. u just don’t think she should be acting like it’s a big surprise when she very clearly planned it 🤷🏼‍♀️

I haven’t seen a post on her in awhile, but the captions for this video are weird asf to me. There are definitely more well-known creators than her, and there are so many others I found making the same types of videos around the same time. Yes, her videos were well-known around that time, but she’s definitely trying to make herself sound more “famous“ than she is. She did NOT invent TTC videos.

there’s literally a dirty footprint imprinted into the shoe + scuff marks on the heel. Why in the world would she even try to charge for these?

literally posts a picture of the orthodontist placing rubber bands in H’s mouth during her appointment for all of her followers to see. Imagine being the orthodontist and having Michelle all up in your space, taking pictures? And this is after several of her followers have warned Michelle against posting pictures of H eating, with her mouth open, etc. She really knows no limits.

I first want to say I don’t condone these comments, regardless of how I feel about their content.

On another note, what in the world is H’s mom thinking continuing to post and keep videos like this up when multiple comments are grown adults bullying her daughter and name-calling her. Somebody literally threatened to dox their family and the account and video is still public.
Her mother needs to put her family‘s safety first and forget about the content creation and money. No amount of fame is worth jeopardizing your daughter’s mental health and physical safety.

I saw someone post her the other day and I feel the same way. I’m the first one to say I used to really like her authentic/creative content, but now her videos have just become ragebaity and repetitive. We get it. You have 4 kids and are only 23. I’m not sure why so many teen moms/young moms on this app constantly feel the need to brag or let their audience know how many kids they have at a young age. Not to mention, just a few months ago, she was complaining about how her husband doesn’t work, does no housework, and threatening to leave him.

MyArfidLife’s mom is so desperate for content and money, she’s literally recording her daughter at events/hangouts with her peers and friends. can she just put the content creation aside for a few hours and let her daughter hang out with her friends?? it’s probably already hard enough for her to fit in, then you have her mom exploiting and recording her in front of everybody. I’m starting to feel it‘s her mom trying to profit off of this whole account, and not her.

I’m an inpatient RN myself and I can’t understand how she finds the time to place to film TTs at work. AND she works in the ICU?? doesn’t she worry about her manager or patients/families seeing this? I work on a busy unit with many other nurses and have never once seen anybody else film TTs in the supply room or on the unit. Her co-workers must talk about her because this is unheard of in most hospitals.