u/Otherwise-Life7172

okay so I am not from the US so I do not know how things work there, my apologies for that. Basically me and my boyfriend are in a long distance relationship where he is studying in Dallas and I know he goes to parties quite a lot. So I confronted him about why he attends so many parties and he told me that the main reason people go to parties is either for sex or for connection. He even told me he ended up getting an internship through a person me met at these parties. This is abit suspicious to me because there is many other ways to make connections he doesn’t HAVE to make connections at parties only. Don’t get me wrong I’m not saying he shldnt go to parties I just dk if his telling me the truth about his reasons. Anyways guys please tell me if this is true and it is actually the reason people in the US go to parties for. I am getting really stressed over this 😭😭😭

okay so I am not from the US so I do not know how things work there, my apologies for that. Basically me and my boyfriend are in a long distance relationship where he is studying in Dallas and I know he goes to parties quite a lot. So I confronted him about why he attends so many parties and he told me that the main reason people go to parties is either for sex or for connection. He even told me he ended up getting an internship through a person me met at these parties. This is abit suspicious to me because there is many other ways to make connections he doesn’t HAVE to make connections at parties only. Don’t get me wrong I’m not saying he shldnt go to parties I just dk if his telling me the truth about his reasons. Anyways guys please tell me if this is true and it is actually the reason people in the US go to parties for. I am getting really stressed over this 😭😭😭

okay so I am not from the US so I do not know how things work there, my apologies for that. Basically me and my boyfriend are in a long distance relationship where he is studying in Dallas and I know he goes to parties quite a lot. So I confronted him about why he attends so many parties and he told me that the main reason people go to parties is either for sex or for connection. He even told me he ended up getting an internship through a person me met at these parties. This is abit suspicious to me because there is many other ways to make connections he doesn’t HAVE to make connections at parties only. Don’t get me wrong I’m not saying he shldnt go to parties I just dk if his telling me the truth about his reasons. Anyways guys please tell me if this is true and it is actually the reason people in the US go to parties for. I am getting really stressed over this

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I do not understand why every one keeps think I would not want him to go to parties, I really never said that. I do not have any problems with him going to parties, it’s just it was quite frequent so I decided to ask him why so many of them and he told me this which sounded suspicion because parties aren’t really a good place to make meaningful connections which can score him a good internship. Please note that he is only 20 and that’s why I’m concerned. And I am really not trying to be a controlling gf, I am just not aware of the party scene in the US as it is very different from where we r from and none of us has attend a party in our country because it’s very rare to have parties here and it was mostly for just a exclusive bunch.