u/Otherwise-Post1139

I am 22F. I have no bachelors and no job experience. I can only work online. Can you suggest ways I can earn remotely?

This is something I’ve been wondering about lately.

Do there genuinely exist men who are completely supportive of their wife’s career even if it means she ends up being more successful, earns more money or becomes more influential than they are?

I keep hearing that many men feel less masculine or insecure if their wife out-earns them or has a higher-status career. It makes me wonder how common it is to find men who are genuinely proud of their partner’s success rather than threatened by it.

Ok, so I had a crush on someone. I stopped talking to him within a week because he only wanted a casual relationship and I wanted something serious. I did like a lot of his other qualities but I only knew him for a week so it was all pretty surface-level. One thing was clear that he was very emotionally unavailable and everyone around him knew that he’s just not an emotional guy. I think the major thing was that I’ve never been attracted to someone to this extent.

The issue is that I can’t stop thinking about him. All my mind is telling me is that I really want to be with him but he doesn’t want me the same way I want him. I want to talk to him again. It just feels so intense. My mind keeps telling me that I should keep him around as a friend but I tried that and every time I talked to him it felt like I was hoping for something more deep down. So I had to stop talking to him. Is this normal? How can I get him out of my mind?

So I’ve been watching this new series on Amazon Prime called Off Campus. At first, when I saw reels or pictures of the male lead, I genuinely didn’t find him attractive at all. But now I’m on episode 4 and somehow I’ve started finding him really attractive.

The female lead is a r*pe survivor and while that’s not the entire plot there’s a part where he helps her feel safe, respects her consent and is just extremely patient and selfless with her. I think after that episode something shifted in my brain and suddenly I started seeing him differently.

For context: I have NO trauma related to SA myself so I don’t think it’s coming from that.

But this happens to me in general too. Sometimes I’ll see a guy and feel completely neutral but then everyone describes him as ambitious, respectful, dependable, “shareef,” emotionally safe etc and my brain automatically starts viewing him as attractive or even as potential partner material.

Is this normal for other women too or is it just me? Is female attraction heavily linked to feeling emotionally safe and secure with someone?

So I’ve been watching this new series on Amazon Prime called Off Campus. At first, when I saw reels or pictures of the male lead, I genuinely didn’t find him attractive at all. But now I’m on episode 4 and somehow I’ve started finding him really attractive.

The female lead is a r*pe survivor and while that’s not the entire plot there’s a part where he helps her feel safe, respects her consent and is just extremely patient and selfless with her. I think after that episode something shifted in my brain and suddenly I started seeing him differently.

For context: I have NO trauma related to SA myself so I don’t think it’s coming from that.

But this happens to me in general too. Sometimes I’ll see a guy and feel completely neutral but then everyone describes him as ambitious, respectful, dependable, “shareef,” emotionally safe etc and my brain automatically starts viewing him as attractive or even as potential partner material.

Is this normal for other women too or is it just me? Is female attraction heavily linked to feeling emotionally safe and secure with someone?

I’m curious how realistic this actually is right now.

Is anyone here making decent money through YouTube, TikTok, faceless AI content or selling digital products made with AI? Things like ebooks, templates, printables, courses, etc.

I keep seeing people online saying they’re making thousands from it but it’s hard to tell what’s real and what’s just people selling a dream.

Requirements:

live around DHA area

Please be fun

Don’t be from a strict family if you’re a girl because permission wala issue na ho

Please be hot if you're a guy. I miss crushing on a guy because kafi time ho gaya hai lol

I’m about to turn 22 this month and I feel like I really need older sister advice.

My parents are very chill and they’ve always let me make my own decisions. I’ve never been pressured by them which I’m grateful for but at the same time I also never really got guidance from them. I don’t have an older sister either so I feel like I’ve just been figuring out life alone and now it’s all hitting me at once.

I know one thing for sure: I don’t want to depend on anyone financially so I am working on the career side of my life. But I’d still love general life advice from women older than me because I feel mentally all over the place lately.

One of the biggest things making me anxious is my love life. I know this might sound desperate or cringe but please hear me out. During my teenage years I was SUPER independent and never even cared about dating or relationships. I genuinely didn’t even want one. But now suddenly I’m feeling this weird FOMO. I don’t want an arranged marriage in the future but I’ve completed my degree and I’m not planning on doing a corporate job so my interaction with men is honestly very low.

And before anyone says “work on yourself first” I already do. I’m conventionally attractive, well groomed, take care of myself and I come from an upper middle class family so I know I already have a lot to be grateful for. That’s why I feel guilty even writing this post because on paper my life is fine.

But emotionally I just feel anxious for no particular reason. Another thing is that I feel like I’m not fully enjoying life no matter what I do. I try to enjoy myself, try new things, stay productive, distract myself etc but there’s always this weird emptiness/anxiety in the background and I honestly don’t understand why.

I think I just want reassurance from women who are older than me that life eventually makes sense and that I’m not “behind” or ruining my future somehow.

So older sisters of Reddit give me any advice you wish someone gave you at 21/22

I’m about to turn 22 this month and I feel like I really need older sister advice.

My parents are very chill and they’ve always let me make my own decisions. I’ve never been pressured by them which I’m grateful for but at the same time I also never really got guidance from them. I don’t have an older sister either so I feel like I’ve just been figuring out life alone and now it’s all hitting me at once.

I know one thing for sure: I don’t want to depend on anyone financially so I am working on the career side of my life. But I’d still love general life advice from women older than me because I feel mentally all over the place lately.

One of the biggest things making me anxious is my love life. I know this might sound desperate or cringe but please hear me out. During my teenage years I was SUPER independent and never even cared about dating or relationships. I genuinely didn’t even want one. But now suddenly I’m feeling this weird FOMO. I don’t want an arranged marriage in the future but I’ve completed my degree and I’m not planning on doing a corporate job so my interaction with men is honestly very low.

And before anyone says “work on yourself first” I already do. I’m conventionally attractive, well groomed, take care of myself and I come from an upper middle class family so I know I already have a lot to be grateful for. That’s why I feel guilty even writing this post because on paper my life is fine.

But emotionally I just feel anxious for no particular reason. Another thing is that I feel like I’m not fully enjoying life no matter what I do. I try to enjoy myself, try new things, stay productive, distract myself etc but there’s always this weird emptiness/anxiety in the background and I honestly don’t understand why.

I think I just want reassurance from women who are older than me that life eventually makes sense and that I’m not “behind” or ruining my future somehow.

So older sisters of Reddit give me any advice you wish someone gave you at 21/22