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I never thought I'd see the day I'd have my heart broken through CatholicMatch. The short and long of it is that I (35M) matched with a woman on CatholicMatch a little while ago, and while we started off great, it ended horribly. We chatted on the app first and then swapped whatsapp info, where we continued chatting, sending messages, voice notes, and even a phone call. Not far in, we had a small tiff (my fault), made up for a few days, and then had another falling out, this one permanent. So much so, she blocked me on CatholicMatch but not whatsapp. So after about a week of agonizing, I bit the bullet (and against my better judgement) and tried to see if something could be salvaged by pouring my heart out and writing her a long message apologizing for not understanding her as well as she wanted me to, for not meeting her standards and for disappointing her and that I was hoping that she'd be willing to give it another chance. In that message, I admitted the feelings I had started to develop for her and how I came to realize that it wasn't a coincidence that we crossed paths. She was the blessing that I had prayed for for so long, and I thought that was finally coming to fruition. No luck. She apologized and lamented that I had been in agony because of her, but also admitted that she had already started talking to another suitor that she had met on the app besides me, apparently. Literally in a matter of days. She said they were getting along well and that they were giving each other a chance. It was a gut punch, but just with that alone, I realized that there was nothing more I could do. I told her I had no animosity towards her and that I'd always remember her and that I would cherish the short amount of time that we had. I even wished her and the other guy well. How he was very fortunate and that hopefully he'll grow to love her, treat her, and value her the way she deserves, since I wouldn't be getting the opportunity anymore. I let her know that it was going to be painful for me, but I acknowledged that I had to respect her and let her go. I ended the last message with "May God bless you and be with you, always." and how I'd miss her terribly. She thanked me, wished me the same, and that was it.
These last few weeks have been horrible for me, knowing that I lost something that could have been great and, with little doubt, the blessing that I had been praying for for some time. Some days have been ok, but most days have just been terrible and filled with thoughts of her, with sadness and sorrow. I didn't even get to enjoy my birthday because of this.
I've been praying to God and Mother Mary to heal this wound and take away all of this sadness and the negative thoughts and emotions that I've been having. Some days have been successful, others not so much.
Please pray for me, y'all. I've faced many disappointments in the dating world for these last 7 years, but not a heartbreak. Not like this one anyway.
I'm not one to ask for help, but I don't have any other choice at this point. I need prayers and consolation.
Thank y'all, and God bless you if you've read this entire post. 🙏🏽