u/Outrageous-Amount-98

Hello!

So I’m not sure where to start… but I was in a situationship with this guy for about 2ish years, I’ve known him years prior to this and he was always my what if. But life got in the way and we were seeing other people. He was engaged and I was with someone else. Both of those ended so I readded him on social media and we decided to try a fwb. During the first two months his dad passed away and I was actively trying to help him out make sure he’s okay as best as I could. He became distant after a couple months… decided to see someone else , which upset me. He came back about 7 months later and we decided to retry the fwb again

Flash forward an ENTIRE year of me going over his house every single weekend, exchanged Christmas presents, Valentine’s Day presents, sleep overs, took care of him whike he was sick the one night I was over. He considered them as “little dates” well about three weeks ago was the last time I saw him because two weeks ago he texted me on his birthday at 7AM telling me he wanted to end things because he met someone else. That felt like a gut punch to me because I really thought this was going somewhere and progressing…

It was the classic “I’d love to be friend still” move but I didn’t take it this time and completely muted and restricted him on all social media because I didn’t want to delete him and figured this girl was gonna fail. Especially since he was mad orbiting my social media (like bad) viewing my stories, his sister suddenly reaching out to me to want to hang out. Which was odd to me, so I kept him on social media for awhile , but less than a week of that break up text he changed his relationship status with a girl who looks exactly like me, none of his exes looked like me before. Then about two days ago he posted photos with her on his Instagram(friends saw it) he was with her in church for his mass. I’m coping but I’m also a total mess about it. I gave this man my time , loyalty and love and was thrown away so easily. Not even a single date , but he’s posting her two weeks after we ended.

I know I’ll get over this but this is one of my worst heartbreaks… especially since I gave him a second chance in the first place and things seemed genuinely progressing with him

Hi Reddit ,

This is one of my first posts, and I feel like this is maybe a good place to vent.

So , for about a year I was seeing this guy, things started off casual but as time went on, exchanged Christmas presents, Valentine’s Day presents, spent the night as eachothers houses , every single weekend I saw him. Naturally I thought this was moving into something genuine. Two weeks ago on his birthday, he hits me with how he started to talk to someone and that we needed to end this… of course I was heart broken. He’s been orbiting my social medias, viewing my stories , his sister has even reached out to me because I haven’t spent anytime looking at any of his content. Today, I made the mistake of looking and saw he was already in a relationship with her… she looks just like me. I’ve seen what his previous exes looked like and none of them have looked the same. She’s nearly IDENTICAL. Of course rhat was even more of a gut punch to me, naturally I deleted and blocked him after. But for two weeks he was watching my profile like a hawk. I just want to know why did he seem to be so quick to get into the relationship with her and if he was happy and moved on, why did he continue to severely orbit my page when he didn’t really before? I’m so confused, heartbroken and so angry