u/Outrageous_Ad7222

hewo! i just got back from a trip outside ph, and as a little push to get myself out there and meet new people, i’m looking for someone to watch insidious with me. :p

i’d prefer someone easy to talk to and fun to yap with. we can grab popcorn and get some food after if we still have the time. i’m from sf pampanga, so ideally i’d like someone from here too. smp directors club is my preferred theatre. although i’m open to ldr as long as we vibe and you get to watch too.

about me:
-just turned 28, from sf
-5’5”, mid sized thicc 39-31-39, presentable, professional
-finds solace in reading books at cafes while enjoying my quiet time with a cup of coffee and sony xm5s.
-active lifestyle (gym, swim, run at what most stuck with me)
-owns a car and drives, but if schedules get complicated, i’d appreciate someone who can pick me up/drop me off
-love language: acts of service (i cook and bake pastries exclusively, and only, for the love of my life) 🍪🥐😗
-from big 3 since apparently it matters to some
-single, obviously 😂
-very malambing once i get attached

about you:
-27+, preferably from sf
-decent, respectful, and fun to yap with ^.^
-enjoys movies as much as i do
-intelligent and comfortable enough to share socials (non negotiable)
-financially stable and takes care of himself (or at least tries to! :p)
- + pts if we have same interests

slide into my dms if you’re interested. pls let it be more than just “hi” though - give me something to work with haha. after all, i’m just a lost soul trying to find a place in someone’s life where i can feel safe enough to be vulnerable.

thank you ^.^

ma,

i have a confession to make.

before i fell for someone worthy enough to let my guard down, i never really found flowers all that appealing. they just weren’t my style.

but then i grew up. the next thing i know, flowers started arriving almost every month.

you were always the one who got the most excited whenever someone sent me a bouquet. you’d tell me they must be a good person because they brought flowers to our doorstep - that somehow, they brought out the femininity in me.

you’d carefully rearrange each stem and place them in your favorite vase. while you trimmed them, i’d tell you how my date went, every little detail included.

you once told me you never got to experience moments like that with ate because she married young, and that i turned out to be the complete opposite. the funny thing is, you were never worried about me getting my heart broken.

you were always more worried that i enjoyed being alone a little too much - that i might get so comfortable with my own company that i’d end up missing the nice guys who came into my life.

i remember you telling tita doris that you never worried about me choosing the wrong men because, somehow, i always found the kind ones.

well, mama…

today i received another bouquet.

the first one since you left.
the first one since i disappeared from social media.
and the first one i’ve ever had to arrange without you.

i found myself splitting it into two.
one vase for me.
another for you.

so even in heaven, you’d still have a piece of every kindness and every love that finds its way to me. i think you’d like that. i think it’s only fair.

you used to be the one posting my flowers because i always wanted to keep them away from evil eyes.
this time, i’m sharing them for you.

it’s been 4 months since you passed, and i miss you, mama.
i don’t know how it happens, but ever since you left, every little thing somehow connects itself to your passing. my happiness, my grief, my victories, my bad days - they all end with the same thought:

i wish you were here.

people say that’s just what happens when you become motherless in your twenties.

maybe they’re right.

but knowing it’s normal doesn’t make me miss you any less.
i hope that somehow, you still look for me from above.

hewo :> currently stuck in that state where my body’s ready to sleep but my brain decided to file a night shift -.- just looking for a friendly quick sleep call or someone to yap with until i finally knock out 😴 i prefer someone who has chismis to share haha

about me:

– 27 from qc/sf pampanga

– loves cats and matcha

– down to hang when we vibe! (i am that kaladkarin)

abt you: friendly, also half-asleep but still functional enough to talk. send an intro along w ur dc pls!

ps: if i dont reply or go silent i prolly passed out on my way to dreamland so i apologize in advance

pps: i have a tiny voice :/

ppps: be kind im just a babie

hello! if anyone wants to hang later at smt for some coffee or matcha, pls count me in! i have a lot of free time after gym and i want my day more productive sana. i rarely have rest days sooo. sfw only :)

about me:
27f
in sf but will be in smt mamaya
madaldal
from big 3

about you:
decent and not awkward
has lots of chika
cool with hanging out with a yapper :>

hmu with your intro cus i wanna know a bit to feel safe. thank u :p

hewo :> currently stuck in that state where my body’s ready to sleep but my brain decided to file a night shift -.- just looking for a friendly quick sleep call or someone to yap with until i finally knock out 😴 i prefer someone who has chismis to share haha. dm me an intro along with your dc/ig :)

about me:

-from pampanga / qc
-likes running, working out, cats, and matcha (emotionally attached to all four)
-prefers calls cus im a bad texter :/
- * let’s swap socials for reels once we vibe!

about you:

-around my age
-respectful and funny
-can yap like a child who just discovered storytelling
-not dry kausap pls, and better if you also have a set of hobbies/routine

ps: if i dont reply or go silent i prolly passed out on my way to dreamland so i apologize in advance

pps: i have a tiny voice :/

ppps: be kind im just a babie

or just a yap sesh. maybe i can tag along while i prep for my little baking session hihi. no work for me tomorrow and i’ll be making bread tonight, so having some company in the background sounds nice 🥹 open to swapping socials too, and maybe hanging out irl if we vibe ♥️

about me:

-27F

-pampanga

-likes running, working out, cats, and matcha (emotionally attached to all four)

-currently in my baking side quest era apparently

-ppl tell me i’m pretty naman but that’s subjective ofc

-madaldal once comfy so fair warning 😭

about you:

-around my age or someone i already yapped with before

-open to swapping socials or hanging out

-okay with random yapping and chill convos

-much better if nearby so we can potentially hang sometime ^.^

dm me ur dc! just looking for wholesome company tonight while i aggressively knead dough and pretend i have my life together 🍞✨

hi! i’m having a hard time sleeping rn despite my productive weekend and i’ve figured it’s the perfect time to listen to mindless yapping from strangers hihi

about me:

-27F

-pampanga

-likes running, working out, cats, and matcha (emotionally attached to all)

-ppl tell me i’m pretty naman but this is subjective of course

-calls over texts bc my brain works faster than my thumbs

about you:

-around my age and someone for long term!

-respectful and funny

-can yap like a child who just discovered storytelling

-not dry kausap pls, buhayin niyo ko sa kwento niyo 🥲

dm me your likes along with your username on dc!

hiii. i just got home from an exhaustinggg pilates session and currently eating my (cheat) dinner. 🍜 is anyone’s down to share some chika on ig/dc before we sleep? also also, pls rate the buldak i made from the very bottom of my kind heart hahahahahah 😭

about me:

-27F

-pampanga

-likes running, working out, cats, and matcha (emotionally attached to all four)

-ppl tell me i’m pretty naman but that’s subjective of course 😌

-prefers calls over texts bc my brain works faster than my thumbs

about you:

-around my age or older

-respectful and funny

-matakaw din

-not dry kausap pls, and better if you also have a set of hobbies/routine.

dm me your username. 🫶🏻