u/Overall-Banana2419

What do you want?

What do you want?

Bought this off someone from fb. It was about 6 ft tall but hardly any leaves and in a huge pot. It left it alone for 1 month to acclimate to my home but it was always sad and leaves falling. So I repotted into a 14” pot with cactus soil. One of the root was ridiculously long (7-8ft) so I trimmed to 1/3 the size. Cut the plant down by 1/2. It sits right in front of SE window. Now a week later, the leaves are looking sad and starting to brown. Idk if I should have just chopped it at the base or what.

u/Overall-Banana2419 — 3 days ago

First FDF: need advice on browning

Just bought a FLF on Sat from someone who kept it outside. It’s about 5 ft tall and the leaves at the top started looking like this in 2 days. I just watered it yesterday and have it in an area that does get direct light (norcal) for a few hours each day but also shaded bc the heat is intense. Should i just wait and see?

u/Overall-Banana2419 — 2 months ago

Extraction vs coronectomy with bone grafting

39F, asymptomatic, both lower wisdoms close to/touching nerve. Leave alone vs extraction? Is bone graft necessary? It’s ~$4.5k oop just for grafting.

u/Overall-Banana2419 — 4 months ago
▲ 63 r/Hijabis

Wanting to divorce husband

SN: not hijabi, but Muslim. Hoping I can just talk to sisters

I 39F want to divorce my husband 42M. The only thing holding me back is my toddler 3yo bc I don’t want joint custody. We live in his state and my family lives on the opposite coast.

We have 0 intimacy for >1yr. I used to initiate, but eventually gave up due to his lack of interest.

He’s unemployed for 7 months now (no fault of his own), actively looking, so I’ve been covering expenses. I earn good money and have good savings Alhamdulillah. He doesn’t have much saved dt poor business decisions.

A few months ago, I told him I was unhappy and he had nothing to say. Recently, i went to my parents for vacation and told him our relationship seems to be over. He didn’t have much to say then either.

I know I should leave him. But I’m scared of uprooting my life completely. I’m scared he’d challenge me for custody or finances even though islamically, there’s no basis.

After a week back from vacation, I told him we should separate and he didn’t agree. Says that it’s partly my fault for not being forthcoming. I told him I’d want 100% custody but that I’d also be moving eventually and I’m sure that was a shocker. He’s fine as a father, but I’m definitely much more of the hands on parent.

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u/Overall-Banana2419 — 4 months ago