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Figure 8 puffer
How cute is his little face?? Tried the viral photography thing where they peep through the little window of paper, was not disappointed 😂
Fish always hangry and food motivated
Just a funny post to see how fuming this fish gets 😅 they’re both fish at the shop I work at but it’s me who cleans them, feeds them so basically my fish really 😂 it’s so funny watching the white one get angry with me because he hasn’t got the food, bare in mind he got fed like 5 minutes PRIOR 😂😂 I sit at the desk in between clients right next to the tank and he’s just always there swimming up and down the glass for my attention, flicking his tail above the water 😂🙄
How do you know you have abilities?
Just a general question as people have pointed out in the past I may have abilities I can possibly improve on/learn. What were your signs and experiences? Was it a feeling of ‘knowing’ or did things keep happening? Thank you!
Wanting to try EMDR for anxiety
Hi everyone, just a few questions I have really, cut a long story short, I’ve suffered with OCD since I was a kid (f28) and every few years it comes on very strong, sometimes stronger than the last time. My anxieties often surround being a bad person, life experiences (future ones, like deaths, life changes etc) and afraid of change. I’m currently in hypnosis but unsure if it is working for me.
EMDR is something I have yet to try, and have been following some success stories for a while.
Questions I have:
- Can or has anyone with bad anxiety have any success with this therapy?
- I didn’t have an overly bad childhood, but grew up with an angry father in my life (we’re on good terms now) but my therapist thinks I have some signs of PTSD surrounding how I feel about myself and how I react internally to situations, is this enough for EMDR?
- Is this type of therapy something that you would recommend for someone who is trying to better their anxiety, about past, present and future to get better and stronger for the future?
Thank you in advance for your replies
Tips for wanting to completely change tank decor/substrate
Hey guys, I’ve had my community fish in my large tank for a while, 5 fancy fish, 6 small minnows, 3 shrimp and a hill stream loach. For me I want to completely change the sand to a different one for a nicer look, and give the whole tank a good fresh clean including the decor and possibly change things around too, how do you recommend doing this safely? I’ve heard a large bucket to hold the fish in is good with their filter and air stone, but I really worry if this will stress them out. If I do do it this way I plan on using the same water that was in their tank, maybe part fresh like a water change, please let me know!
Update on Steve!
Hey! I posted a while back introducing Steve, he’s still doing great, still a bit of a mong, but I tattooed him on myself today!
Long live Steve 🐠
Hey guys, I had my first session with a lady yesterday, she was recommend to me by my client who had a very good experience that was very accurate for him. So I was excited to get in contact with her!
I loved her as a person she was very funny and made me at ease, I brought my cousin with me for support as I was very nervous to go on my own as it was my first time doing this, and we both had a few laughs with her! But, she kept getting in contact with spirits and every name she brought up to me I had no connection to at all, and neither did my cousin. She did pick up on a few small things that was true, especially in the tarot session, which that was my favourite part. I felt a little deflated after the session because I had heard my clients experience and read reviews on her also which was very positive.
I’m not sure how to feel at the moment, but any feedback and thoughts are welcome!