u/Pale-Connection-1960

Hi everyone.
Around a year ago, I confessed my feelings to a girl. She politely told me she wasn’t interested in a relationship. I respected her decision and never tried to pressure her or convince her otherwise.
Since then, we haven’t really talked. I tried to move on, focused on college, friends, games, and other things, but the truth is… I’m still not over her.
We haven’t talked for like 8 months despite both being in the same class. I don’t know ki whether she’s in a relationship rn or not
The strange part is that I don’t want to text her. I don’t want to confess again over text or send a long message. I just have this strong urge to talk to her once, in person. Not to force anything or expect her to change her mind, but because I feel like there’s so much left unsaid, and I wonder if one genuine conversation would finally give me closure..
At the same time, I don’t want to make her uncomfortable or disrespect the boundary she already set. That’s what stops me every time.
So I’m stuck between:
Talking to her once in person and risking making things awkward.
Staying silent and wondering “what if?” for who knows how long.
Has anyone been in a similar situation? If you were in her position, would you appreciate someone asking to talk once, or would you rather they leave things as they are?
I’m looking for honest opinions, even if they’re not what I want to hear. I feel very anxious about this…

Hi everyone.
Around a year ago, I confessed my feelings to a girl. She politely told me she wasn’t interested in a relationship. I respected her decision and never tried to pressure her or convince her otherwise.
Since then, we haven’t really talked. I tried to move on, focused on college, friends, games, and other things, but the truth is… I’m still not over her.
We haven’t talked for like 8 months despite both being in the same class. I don’t know ki whether she’s in a relationship rn or not
The strange part is that I don’t want to text her. I don’t want to confess again over text or send a long message. I just have this strong urge to talk to her once, in person. Not to force anything or expect her to change her mind, but because I feel like there’s so much left unsaid, and I wonder if one genuine conversation would finally give me closure..
At the same time, I don’t want to make her uncomfortable or disrespect the boundary she already set. That’s what stops me every time.
So I’m stuck between:
Talking to her once in person and risking making things awkward.
Staying silent and wondering “what if?” for who knows how long.
Has anyone been in a similar situation? If you were in her position, would you appreciate someone asking to talk once, or would you rather they leave things as they are?
I’m looking for honest opinions, even if they’re not what I want to hear. I feel very anxious about this…

Hi everyone.
Around a year ago, I confessed my feelings to a girl. She politely told me she wasn’t interested in a relationship. I respected her decision and never tried to pressure her or convince her otherwise.
Since then, we haven’t really talked. I tried to move on, focused on college, friends, games, and other things, but the truth is… I’m still not over her.
We haven’t talked for like 8 months despite both being in the same class. I don’t know ki whether she’s in a relationship rn or not
The strange part is that I don’t want to text her. I don’t want to confess again over text or send a long message. I just have this strong urge to talk to her once, in person. Not to force anything or expect her to change her mind, but because I feel like there’s so much left unsaid, and I wonder if one genuine conversation would finally give me closure..
At the same time, I don’t want to make her uncomfortable or disrespect the boundary she already set. That’s what stops me every time.
So I’m stuck between:
Talking to her once in person and risking making things awkward.
Staying silent and wondering “what if?” for who knows how long.
Has anyone been in a similar situation? If you were in her position, would you appreciate someone asking to talk once, or would you rather they leave things as they are?
I’m looking for honest opinions, even if they’re not what I want to hear. I feel very anxious about this…