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I heard this twice or more last time I told my cousins I don't want children, it really ANNOYED me because I turn real serious when it comes to this topic but they didn't seem to take me seriously.. tf you mean I'll have six children or I'll change my mind.. why is this the first thing that comes to your mind!?? Just say "Oh that's fine too" or keep ur mouth closed.. what should I answer that next time..? Without going on a debate/discussion because it's no use with them..

At first, I obviously thought: Of course I would! But then I thought that natalists think they are right and that we, antinatalists, are wrong. I believe bringing children is wrong but not everyone believes the same.. so just like I wouldn't like turning against my will into a natalist.. is it morally okay to ,magically in this scenario, make all people anti-natalists..?

(Hope I explained it well)

My parents are strict, my country is Muslim too.. I can't bear all those years I have to wait until I can leave this country forever.. Wearing hijab was always suffocating even before I leave Islam.. I can't bear wearing it, I hate that so much.. I don't wanna wear makeup or skirts or whatever.. I just wanna go out with my hair so I can feel normal.. not suffocating.. I can't think of any way to convince my parents..

"Life is beautiful," "My religion commands me to," "I will be a good parent," "I will make sure to afford and give them the best life" and so on. Notice how everything said starts with an implicit 'I'. This is your view alone. Your child might turn out to be a pessimist, an atheist, or suffer throughout their life from anything imaginable. You are imposing your own worldview, with absolutely no guarantee they'll adopt it. It isn't your life to live, so it shouldn't be your decision to make.. just stop.

I don't think I'm an interesting person.. But.. Hopefully this post and comments help making me feel better after.. "argument" with my parent. I love writing, but I procrastinate a lot, and I watch anime the most. Ik a little about psychology, philosophy, and religions (atheist rn).. I think that's 100 characters :-D

One of the main couples I'm writing is inspired by Izuocha. There are differences but the core is similar (Supportive, caring and kind towards each other or let's say friends to lovers). Both are complex character and neither of them is only "love interest" since romance isn't the main focus of the plot, I wanna know what moments you thought/think would suit Izuocha so I might get inspired. Feel free to mention as much details as you want! Ty in advance!

I don't think I'm completely understood, not by me myself or by people. I want someone I can tell them everything, just as raw and straight-forwad, that is in my mind. I want someone who listens and understands my opinions, my thoughts, my wishes.. and everything about me. Maybe..It is the same as looking for imaginary creature ig..

(Not rant)
When I used to believe in the religion I was born in, one of my biggest fears was that I might go to hell while I did not ask (and want) God to create me, and was worried that my religion isn't true in the first place.. which caused me massive pain even when everything (Parents, friends, and life in general) was going normal. Now I do not believe in religion and this is not rant, the thing is this experience made me realize people will suffer even with no mental/physical illness, and now I question why would religious people bring children if there is possibility they'd go to hell (as they believe). I see many antinatalists talk about suffering in the current life, so I thought to mention this and see what you all think.

Mainly I like anime and writing but any topic is fine if it is interesting (not nsfw tho) :D

Tmr is the ova, I'm both so excited and sad..＞︿＜