u/Particular_Neat_9927

Hi, I found out i kinda have feelings for my long time friend . I’ve known her 5 years, and for the past 3 years, i have walked her home from school every single day. We kinda had a thing in year 7, but we were young and dumb and didn’t really count lol. Anyway, she’s amazing, she’s really sweet, really funny and just generally a great person. At my prom, most people are going as friends instead of couples as most people in my year are either single or dating someone either outside of our school, or in a different year group. A few weeks ago she invited me, and we’re even wearing matching colours (if your interested, navy blue lmao). I had the idea that at the end of the night, i was going to pull her aside and say something along the lines of “So i thought i’d let you know that since like last year, i might’ve started getting feelings for you, and i just thought i’d let tell you as this might be one of the last opportunities i get”. Is this a good idea? Would there be a better place and time? Should i do it over text? Should i do it at all?, im stuck 😭🙏

Hi, I (16M) found out i kinda have feelings for my long time friend (16F). I’ve known her 5 years, and for the past 3 years, i have walked her home from school every single day. We kinda had a thing in year 7, but we were young and dumb and didn’t really count lol. Anyway, she’s amazing, she’s really sweet, really funny and just generally a great person. At my prom, most people are going as friends instead of couples as most people in my year are either single or dating someone either outside of our school, or in a different year group. A few weeks ago she invited me, and we’re even wearing matching colours (if your interested, navy blue lmao). I had the idea that at the end of the night, i was going to pull her aside and say something along the lines of “So i thought i’d let you know that since like last year, i might’ve started getting feelings for you, and i just thought i’d let tell you as this might be one of the last opportunities i get”. Is this a good idea? Would there be a better place and time? Should i do it over text? Should i do it at all?, im stuck 😭🙏

So for like the past 5 years i’ve known this girl called brooke, and lowkey she’s amazing, she’s different to everyone else and she’s rlly sweet and kind but i can also have a proper laugh with her. In yr 7, we dated. and lowkey it was an ass relationship, we were both still young and we had no idea what we were doing and it was cringe asf, after we broke up i didn’t rlly speak to her until yr 9. In yr9, we started walking home together, bc if i take a 1 minute detour from the direction of my house it takes her home, and she always wants some of my vape so id walk her home. For the past 3 years, i have walked brooke home every single day, to the point where even if i was sick and couldn’t make it to school, i was at those gates at 3 o’clock waiting for brooke. oh and we’d also make the common joke that we would never get back together lmfso. anyway, a few months ago we were on the topic of prom and she said oh you should come to prom with me because everyone’s going as mates so i was like yeah, which lowkey a bit unusual because she has other boy mates that she knows more than me and she’d also talk about this boy ethan which ig she fancies i never really listened bc i rlly didn’t want to. anyway a few weeks ago she invited me round, not unusual bc ive been before but we sat on her sofa and watched impractical jokers, she was wearing these pyjamas and oh my fucking god she looked so fucking hot, genuinely beautiful. anyway now i’m going to prom with her next week and we barely talk anymore since school ended but i have insane fucking feelings for her and i like her so much. anyway, point is, i was going to go up to her at prom and be like “ngl ive liked you for a while yadeyda, i didn’t want to never see you again without at least being honest”… is this a good idea or nah bc i think it’s not but i also think i want to