u/Party-Morning5727

I’m 22 years old, and I was diagnosed with ADHD when I was 7. I stopped taking medication when I was 13.
When I was a kid, my family wasn’t doing very well financially, so I didn’t have a computer or LEGO, and I couldn’t really afford to play games on my phone either. But I absolutely loved puzzle-solving and strategy-type games. I was obsessed with chess and used to play it by myself all the time because no one around me played chess.
During high school, I had this motivation to become an engineer and isolate myself from other people so I could focus entirely on my work.

*\*Time skip\**

Now I’m 22, a guy working an average-paying job. I finally bought myself a computer and some nerdy hobbies and stuff I always wanted, but unfortunately, none of it makes me happy anymore.
Right now, the only thing I really want to do is go out and have fun with friends—which I don’t have. I want to drink, grab a coffee at a café, go on vacation, swim in places I’ve never been to before, and have some romantic experiences with a girl.
I love my job, but I don’t want to be alone anymore. I don’t know what I’m supposed to do. I still feel like I need to improve myself and become a better version of myself, but my brain just doesn’t seem to give me any dopamine anymore.
I don’t have anyone to share these feelings with, so I wanted to ask for your advice. I honestly have no idea what I should do.

Hoşlanıp hoşlanmama ayrı konu ama benim düşüncem her türde kitabın eleştirisini yapmak yada güzel taraflarını konuşmak çok zevkli özellikle hiç alakam olmadığı watped tarzı kitapları okuyan arkadaşımla eleştirmeyi çok seviyorum.

Sığ görüşlülük konusu ise şöyle bir cümle bile kurmaya çalışmadan sevmeyenler sadece kitlesine ve verdiği vibe a göre bakıcaksak bu dünyada kimle ile bağ kurulamazki.

I’m 22 years old, and I was diagnosed with ADHD when I was 7. I stopped taking medication when I was 13.
When I was a kid, my family wasn’t doing very well financially, so I didn’t have a computer or LEGO, and I couldn’t really afford to play games on my phone either. But I absolutely loved puzzle-solving and strategy-type games. I was obsessed with chess and used to play it by myself all the time because no one around me played chess.
During high school, I had this motivation to become an engineer and isolate myself from other people so I could focus entirely on my work.

*\*Time skip\**

Now I’m 22, a guy working an average-paying job. I finally bought myself a computer and some nerdy hobbies and stuff I always wanted, but unfortunately, none of it makes me happy anymore.
Right now, the only thing I really want to do is go out and have fun with friends—which I don’t have. I want to drink, grab a coffee at a café, go on vacation, swim in places I’ve never been to before, and have some romantic experiences with a girl.
I love my job, but I don’t want to be alone anymore. I don’t know what I’m supposed to do. I still feel like I need to improve myself and become a better version of myself, but my brain just doesn’t seem to give me any dopamine anymore.
I don’t have anyone to share these feelings with, so I wanted to ask for your advice. I honestly have no idea what I should do.

I’m 22 years old, and I was diagnosed with ADHD when I was 7. I stopped taking medication when I was 13.
When I was a kid, my family wasn’t doing very well financially, so I didn’t have a computer or LEGO, and I couldn’t really afford to play games on my phone either. But I absolutely loved puzzle-solving and strategy-type games. I was obsessed with chess and used to play it by myself all the time because no one around me played chess.
During high school, I had this motivation to become an engineer and isolate myself from other people so I could focus entirely on my work.

*\*Time skip\**

Now I’m 22, a guy working an average-paying job. I finally bought myself a computer and some nerdy hobbies and stuff I always wanted, but unfortunately, none of it makes me happy anymore.
Right now, the only thing I really want to do is go out and have fun with friends—which I don’t have. I want to drink, grab a coffee at a café, go on vacation, swim in places I’ve never been to before, and have some romantic experiences with a girl.
I love my job, but I don’t want to be alone anymore. I don’t know what I’m supposed to do. I still feel like I need to improve myself and become a better version of myself, but my brain just doesn’t seem to give me any dopamine anymore.
I don’t have anyone to share these feelings with, so I wanted to ask for your advice. I honestly have no idea what I should do.

Ben adhdli bir bireyim oyüzden duygu durum olayı bende çok karışık olabiliyor bazen çok saplantılı veya gözmezden gelebiliyorum durum şuki çocukken bir sorun yaşadığımda kısa bir süre sonra yoluma hedefime kitlenip yaşadığım olumsuzluğu unutamasam bile arkamda bırakırdım yani ilerideki hedef benim için duygusal olarak daha öncelikliydi şu 2020 den sonra hem internet kullanımım artması hemde dizi,film,müzik hobilermin artmasıyla duygularını içe bastırma gibi söylemlere karşı daha olumlu bakmaya başladım erkek halimle ağladım,eski kötü geçmişimi insanlara paylaştım ,yaşadığım şeyleri sürekli düşündüğüm ve çözümledim tabiki bunların olumlu taraflarıda vardır ama olumsuz tarafları daha fazla neden diyeceksiniz kısıtlı zamanınızı boşa harcıyorsunuz oyüzden şuan full ileri eylem odaklı ve ileri odaklı çalışıyorum ama tabi arada patladıpım zamanlar oluyor ama boş durmanın acısı daha fazla benim için.

Aklımdan geçeni pat pat yazdım yanlış yazmışımdır büyük ihtimal özür dilerim ha birde hesabımın karması düşük çünkü birkaç ay önce silmiştim tekrar yükledim aklıma birşey gelince yazayım dedim tekrardan teşekkür ederim.

Edit:bunu yazmasam olmazdı redditte 10 posttan 8i yok şunu yaşadım yok bu bana böyle davrandı duygusal olarak böyleyim postlarıyla dolu eğer psikolojik olarak bir sorun haricinde yada sistemin bizi sömürmesi gibi durumlar haricinde gereksiz kendinizi duraksallaştırdığınız durumlardır hayata devam edin çok düşünmeyin.