18M i need help, don't mince your words

Hi everyone,

I have a bit of a problem. Ever since I was a kid, I’ve had a large forehead and wore clothes that didn't fit me right, so people used to make fun of me. It really damaged my self-confidence. Starting in middle school, I developed a real fixation on my appearance, constantly comparing myself to others and wondering, 'Why was I born like this?', 'Why do I have these genetics?', and so on... What I’m looking for is some help to glow up, to stop obsessing over my looks, and to finally be able to look at myself in the mirror without any negative thoughts.

To give you an idea: I have an uneven skin tone (probably hyperpigmentation), a receding hairline,yellow teeth and I’m tall and very skinny (6'4" and 154 lbs / 1m93 for 70kg).

On top of that, I have absolutely no style and don't know how to dress at all. I’m not sure if posting this on Reddit is the best idea, but hey, nothing ventured, nothing gained.

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