Should I (18F) follow him or not

EDIT: Should I follow his instagram account (not a cult)
Hi everyone!!
So I’ve had this guy who I used to be very close with around 2022-2023. He was a great guy and very funny with a big personality. He ended up catching feelings for me and I had to turn him away because I just came out of a very serious relationship and out of respect for me, him, and my ex boyfriend, it was the best. We had a pretty big falling out a bit after I rejected him and it ended on us being on badish terms. We ended up apologising and chose to not become friends again.
This was 3 years ago and I still think about him on and off. I was thinking about maybe following his instagram account and I know it’s not a big deal but I’m a big wuss and worried he hates me.

Should I follow his account?

TLDR; This guy and I had a falling out 3 years ago and I want to reconnect and follow his instagram account to see where it goes, should I follow him?

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u/Party_Square_8793 — 22 hours ago

Bf (20M) gets annoyed when I hangout with friends

We have been dating a little over a year now and this is something that has become more frequent as we continue to be together.
Whenever I(21F) talk to him about being invited to do things with my girl friends , he instantly shuts down and starts saying things like “why don’t you spend that time with me” or “now I’m going to be alone again”. Because of this reaction I’ve been hanging out less and less with other people to avoid another shutdown and later argument. I see him very frequently during the week and I am often at his house so it’s not as if I ditch him to hangout with my friends. I’ve spoken to him about it before and he said that because of before we dated I used to hug and hold hands with my girl friends he thinks it’s cheating. I have never done it again during our relationship but from time to time he calls me a cheater because of it.
I really don’t know what to do because I want to hangout with my friends because I feel so lonely but I know I have repercussions for it. I feel scared to tell him I have plans with my friends.

TLDR; my boyfriend shuts down and becomes irritable when I tell him I have been invited to hangout with my friends because I used to hold hands and hug my girl friends, what do I do?

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u/Party_Square_8793 — 9 days ago

No period IUD

Hi everyone I’ve had my low dosage IUD for 2 months now but I’ve currently missed my period for the last week. Since my IUD is low dosage hormone my nurse said I have a 1 in 16 chance to lose my period after 6 months.

I had a lot of cramping yesterday and I thought my period finally came but still absolutely nothing. Not even spotting. I’m very sexually active with my partner and we have been relying on the IUD as contraception.

Should I take a pregnancy test or is this normal?

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u/Party_Square_8793 — 10 days ago

Can’t feel iud strings!! Help!!

I just had sex a few hours ago with my long term partner and I’ve had my IUD in place for a month now. I checked for the strings on Monday and could feel them as clear as day. I went to check while in the shower and I can’t feel ANYTHING!! I’ve tried everything, different positions, straining, different fingers, I can feel my cervix but not the strings.

I haven’t had any bad cramping or pains or bleeding. What’s going on!!
I have my 6 week check up next Thursday to make sure it’s in place but I’m so worried because my boyfriend finished in me!

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u/Party_Square_8793 — 25 days ago

IUD

I’ve had my IUD for just around a month and thankfully i currently have no spotting. Instead I’ve been getting occasional chunks of what I am assuming is discharge which is coloured a VERY light brown maybe even sort of super light grey.
It does not smell like anything and I am having little to no cramping recently, maybe slight tugging.

Another thing is that after having sex with my partner, I have cramping for around 6 hours after. Nothing bad like period cramps but definitely noticeable uncomfortable cramping. No medication required or heat packs.
Is this normal?

TLDR; no spotting and no cramps but very occasional chunks of different coloured discharge, is this normal?
Cramping after sex, is this normal?

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u/Party_Square_8793 — 26 days ago

IUD strings

I’ve had my Jaydess IUD for over a month now and I just finished my first period. My nurse told me to check once or twice a month including after my period.

I can’t really tell if the strings are getting longer or not. I can feel them and I’m sure there’s no change but if there was expulsion, would it be obvious?

This is my first IUD so I’m very inexperienced

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u/Party_Square_8793 — 1 month ago

Very sore boobs

I had the Skyla IUD inserted around 3 weeks ago and I am due for my period on the 28th (currently 26th)
I am having the sorest breasts ever and I don’t usually get sore breasts this bad. Even when I lay down it’s uncomfortable.
Is it normal to get new side effects or heightened effects after getting a hormonal IUD? (Or is this some crazy rare pregnancy)

Thanks for reading xx

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u/Party_Square_8793 — 1 month ago

IUD and sore boobs?

Hey ladies!!
I had the Skyla IUD inserted around 3 weeks ago and I am due for my period on the 28th (currently 26th)
I am having the sorest breasts ever and I don’t usually get sore breasts this bad. Even when I lay down it’s uncomfortable.
Is it normal to get new side effects or heightened effects after getting a hormonal IUD? (Or is this some crazy rare pregnancy)

Thanks for reading xx

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u/Party_Square_8793 — 1 month ago