u/PassageNo7330

I have a 3.85 gpa I will have 1 year of research experience and 1 year of clinical experience. I love psychology and I’m interested in a wide range of topics within it I really just love it all and I love working with people and doing research. I was planning on applying to mostly clinical, and some counseling, school psychology and cognitive programs. But I know clinical psychology is super competitive so I’m not sure if I want to apply to as many if I don’t really have a chance, I was a transfer student so I didn’t get as much research opportunities.
Thank you for your help.

Me [23F] have been with my bf [23M] for 4 months. I really love him and we’ve been planning to move in together. Well I recently kinda realized he’s never posted about me once not on his story but he’ll post about traveling he’s not a big poster but I guess it just bothers me because I post him on my instagram story often mostly because I have guys hit on me and I want them and my friends and family to know I have a bf and I’m happy, maybe that’s dumb. Well it was kinda bothering me so I went through who he was following and who was following him. I found a girl and he’s liked ALL her posts one from 4 days ago 4 weeks ago 15 weeks ago. I have a sinking feeling in my gut I know they’re just photos but it hurts. They aren’t like silly photos I mean like she’s really pretty and most of the photos show that selfie, tights picture, picture in a short skirt.
I’ve been cheated on before so I think that’s why this bothers me so much but idk how to bring it up. Am I being crazy should I just let this go?
TLDR: [23M] bf has liked every single one of a girls instagram photos. And me [23F] doesn’t know how to react.

I’m applying for OCS after I graduate university next year to become a naval intelligence officer but I’m hesitant. It really all sounds great I want to see the world, gain valuable experience, be part of something bigger then myself. But I have a 5 year old cat and what about him? My family would take care of him if I traveled but it’s just uncertain. 4 years is a long time to be without him. How often would I travel? Could I even have a cat?I’ve heard people say they have cats and it’s fine and I’ve heard people say it doesn’t work.