u/PassengerWeak1815

Am I the only one who puts it infront of the man if it looks like it's a date . I mean like if there married I do the same lol , but not as purposeful if that makes sense . If I see a girl and a guy on a date , I always put it in front of the guy . Now I know that it's my personal belief that the man should pay . But it's not even why I do it . I do it so that the girl can see that I put it in front of him and that if he decided to pick it up or just leave it and ask to split it . It obviously is none of my business but I feel like as a girls girl i cant help but doing it so that it would reveal to them if they even GAF about that stuff or not. And then it's back to the girl to decide if she cares about that stuff too. I'm such an overthinker lol and started this bc I loved when ppl did it to the guys I went on dates with.

I have two Leo sisters and one of them is a little selfish but she's also still young and they're both very thoughtful of other people and self aware of there actions. My experience with Leo men on the other hand is that they come off very selfish , I mean this in the way that every action is taken based on if that outcome would be beneficial for themselves. Is this just a man thing lol or a Leo thing ?
Ps . Im an Aquarius

Hi everyone! I’m planning to move to Amman from the US and I’m trying to figure out the best way to find a job there.
I have a Bachelor’s degree in Psychology and I’m interested in finding work related to my degree, especially in areas like psychology, counseling, mental health, social services, NGOs, case management, or working with children/families.
I don’t have much professional experience in the field yet, so I’m mainly looking for entry-level opportunities where I can gain experience and build my career.
I’m also fluent in Arabic and English and I’m originally from Jordan, but I’ve lived in the US for most of my life. I’m planning to move to Amman, so I’d really appreciate advice from people who live there or have gone through something similar.
Where is the best place to look for jobs in Amman? Are there specific websites, Facebook groups, NGOs, organizations, or recruiters that you recommend? And is it better to start applying while I’m still in the US, or wait until I move?
Any advice would be really appreciated! ❤️

I wanna start by saying we have been together for two years and engaged for 6 months . I really need outside perspectives because I don’t know if my grief is making me overly emotional, or if I’m seeing something I shouldn’t ignore.
The last three months have been the hardest of my life.
My grandfather passed away in a very traumatic way. Not long after that, my uncle died from cancer. At the same time, my mom’s side of the family completely fell apart after my grandfather’s death. There has been fighting, people not speaking to each other, and my mom has been struggling with severe anxiety, depression, and stress. Watching her go through that has been heartbreaking.
On top of all of this, I realized I had made a mistake by stopping my antidepressants. I thought I was doing well enough to come off them, but over the last month I realized my mental health had gotten significantly worse. I spoke with my doctor, and three days ago I restarted them. So I know I’m grieving, emotionally overwhelmed, and also adjusting to medication again.
Through all of this, my fiancé has technically “shown up.” He comes when I need him, helps with practical things, brings me things, and tries to say the right words.
But emotionally… I feel so alone.
When I cry, he usually becomes quiet. Sometimes he’ll roll his eyes, look away, or I can tell he’s frustrated. He has very little patience for my emotions and often has high expectations of me to keep functioning normally despite everything that’s happened. I’ve tried telling myself it’s just “tough love,” but lately I’m starting to wonder if that’s really what it is.
Instead of feeling understood, I often feel like my grief is something he has to tolerate.
If I get upset because I feel dismissed, he usually becomes defensive. He tells me I’m overreacting or asks, “What do you want me to do?” Then we end up arguing, and I leave feeling even more alone.
Last night is what really broke my heart.
I’ve been having a very difficult time falling asleep lately because of my anxiety and grief.
I told him, “I’m scared. I don’t want to be alone.”
I wasn’t asking him to fix anything. I wasn’t asking him to solve my anxiety. I honestly just wanted him to stay with me until I fell asleep.
Instead, he said something like, “I’m sorry. Maybe you can ask Maya to stay with you.”
That crushed me.
I didn’t want Maya.
I wanted him.
I didn’t argue. I didn’t yell. I just shut down emotionally because I felt like the one person I wanted comfort from was basically telling me to find someone else.
The hardest part is that if I imagine bringing this up to him calmly and saying, “That really hurt me because I just wanted you,” I already know what will happen. He’ll become defensive, tell me I’m overreacting, or get frustrated instead of trying to understand why it hurt.
I don’t think he’s a bad person. I genuinely believe he loves me in his own way. He has been physically present through everything, and I recognize that. But I’m starting to wonder if love is enough when I don’t feel emotionally safe being vulnerable with him.
I’m scared because we’re engaged, and I’m beginning to wonder if this is what marriage will look like whenever life gets hard.
Am I expecting too much by wanting my fiancé to simply hold me, comfort me, and stay with me when I’m grieving and scared?
Or are these signs that we’re emotionally incompatible?
TLDR: My fiancé (32M) has been physically present while I’ve been grieving the deaths of my grandfather and uncle, but when I’m emotional I often feel dismissed or met with frustration. Last night I told him I was scared and didn’t want to be alone, and he suggested I ask my friend to stay with me instead. I love him, but I’m starting to worry I don’t feel emotionally safe with him. Am I expecting too much, or are these legitimate red flags?

I really feel like a burden to him sometimes . We've been dating for two years and he asked me to marry him on our two year anniversary. I have a lot of love and respect for my fiance . He truly is my love and I think about him and do a lot to please Him . That being said I am not perfect and I know that I can also be better . But ever since the beginning of our relationship there would be times he made me feel like I was so annoying like he told me i was annoying with how I get so scared and squeeze him when I'm scared at the movies . Or that when I got a flat tire on the road he was huffing and puffing and slamming car doors bc he had to turn around and come back to me . We live an hour away from eachother and he always brings up and complains about the drive . Today when he came to see me he didn't even get the chance to give me a kiss or say hi he just was so frustrated it was long and so much traffic and he needs to stretch immediately so he was driving and looking for a place to pull over and as we're driving I'm talking to him and he says can we just chill for a second, as in can u please just not talk rn , ALSO NEVER GOT A HUG AND KISS. The point of this is that I have been trying to communicate the fact that I feel like this and I hate when he does that and he always just says it's cuz he's comfortable to complain and that he'll just never complain about anything again bc I "obviously can't handle it "it t still happened even right after our talks . But I am also struggling bc I am really bothered by the words and the obvious absence of thinking before he speaks but he has been really busy at work and he's communicating that to me .
I've been trying to emphasize with his workload and I've gave him space and time and made him lunch to help him. So why can I do that with love and then he drives to my house and the first thing when he sees me isn't excitement it's just can u just stop talking for a second and complains about the drive . Why does he think it's okay? Does this happen in other relationships?? I know you can love someone a find them annoying bc I feel that towards him too lol but to the point of annoyance at the things he gets annoyed at me for I couldn't imagine feeling towards him .