u/PeachyLand666_9

Hey yall, just trying to see if anyone has been in a similar boat? I am 30yo- Started birth control for suspected PMDD/endometriosis/panic disorder that I believe is from hormones fluncuations+sleep disturbances (I have a 3yo and 1yo)

History: I have been on bc before from 14-21yrs old. I threw up every morning from it.
I stopped breastfeeding my second son and a month later developed and panic disorder and severe derealization, which I suspect is from hormones.
Trialed a few SSRIs to no avail.

So now- a year later- I start Nexstellis bc (natural estrogen/drospirenone) and could only tolerate the first pack. A week into the second pack I quit due to visual snow/dizziness/off feeling, which I suspect estrogen intolerance. I also had really terrible mood swings, almost left my baby daddy and was crying alot. I never cry lol.

Anyways, gave it about 5 days off bc and then started Slynd. Same drospirenone (1mg more), but no estrogen. Hopeful again because its like the Nexstellis, so maybe the bad side effects will go away and the good ones will stay (no severe bloat, painful ovulation, etc).
Im 5 days in and I am SO BLOATED! I dont care that I am peeing alot (used to it), but holy crap I was not expecting this bloat!! I also am more anxious/verge of panic attack.
Idk whether or not I should continue, its still quite early, but I dont know if I can stand this TBH. I HATE feeling bloated and being soooo full after like two bites of food. Please let me know if anyone has similar experiences? Does it get better????

Just cancelled reward for two comp nights as I cant use it for Thurs-Friday. Looking to get one comp night, but now there are none! I know they get "reloaded", does anyone know when? Im on tier 3 and thats when they showed. Thanks!

We want to go Wed-Sat and we got two comp nights, using for Wed/Thurs, but it wont let me book four days in a row. Obviously we will pay for Fri/Sat, but how can I do this in one? I dont want to book to seperate rooms or whatever. Anyone have any experience with this? Do I just have to book the comp nights and the not comp nights separately?
Thanks!

I was able to snag the 2 free nights for NYNY. My account is attached to my FB and when I made it, I used my correct last name, but my first name I used what I go by which is "Cassie". My DL though says "Cassandra".
Will this be a problem when redeeming my reward? If so, how can I change it? It wont let me do it in the app and says contact support, but they havent gotten back to me.
TIA

I am so over doing everything all the time for everyone. I need to rant.
Boyfriend and I have a 3yo and 1yo. We both work FT, he works alot of overtime and out of town frequently. When he is in town working, it doesnt even matter because he is gone before we wake up and gets home at bed time. He never cooks, not a single meal. Doesnt handle any of our finances. He does bedtime for our 3yo if he is home in time. Here is what my day looks like:
Get up, get the kids ready, make their breakfast, get myself ready, manage to get out of the house on time, take them to daycare, go to work (Im a dental assistant, my job is very demanding mentally and physically- my boyfriends job is physically demanding as well, but on some days he gets to tell others what to do and sit/watch all day)
ANYWAYS- I get off just in time to get them from daycare and they are immediately hungry and whiney as f*** when we get home. This part of my day just sucks the rest of what little life in me I had left out. And if its bath night its even worse.
Manage to get them fed, dinners done, maybe Ill get to eat mine before my 1yo has to go to bed. Then my 3yo watches his show until his bed time. Maybe Ill shower. Maybe Ill clean. Maybe Ill do laundry. My boyfriend will usually get home at this time and I dont even want to look at him. He gets to come home, shower, enjoy the quiet part of the day at home, eat a home cooked meal and go to bed. Oh and if I don't make him breakfast and lunch, he goes to work with nothing. He has never made himself lunch. Maybe hes made himself breakfast a few times.

He tries to show me affection and omg I hate it so bad I just want to tell him to get off me, but I try soooo hard to not make him feel like I hate him even though I do.

If you read all this, thank you so much. I was in therapy and am not anymore because I didnt like my new therapist. So maybe this rant and a good cry will help me.
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A little confused by the wording. If I purchase one of these, and go to book my room, how discounted is it? Trying to see if this makes more sense versus purchasing the 25% off room rate as you cant even use it for any weekend stay.
The game play just says it needs to be three nights in a row, doesnt matter what day.
Anyone have an insight?