u/Pessenger

Now that Leo is gone, who is doing the good work in the space of biohacking, supplements, and peptides?

Vent: I’m kind of feeling shitty after being on dating apps for a few months now. I think I’m an okay-looking guy, I’m 27, have my life mostly together, and I’m genuinely looking for a relationship. I get around 50 matches a week between Hinge and Tinder, but somehow it still feels like it’s all garbage.

I’m just tired of going through the same talking stages over and over again that never go anywhere. You talk for a few days, things seem good, and then they randomly disappear. Sometimes they come back a week later like nothing happened, or you keep matching with the same people again. You’ll make plans for a date and then they vanish the day before. Or you go on one or two dates, start getting excited about someone, and then suddenly their energy completely changes.

Idk, I really don’t even feel like I have crazy expectations from dating. I just wanted to find someone I enjoy spending my weekends with, cuddle with, go out and do random things together, and hopefully build it into a long-term relationship. I’m not expecting someone to immediately fall in love with me or commit after two dates. I just want some consistency and someone who actually seems excited to get to know me.

It all just feels so stupid and repetitive. Like everyone is constantly looking for the next best option, and nobody wants to give anything enough time to actually develop. You can have a great conversation or a good date and still get dropped for no obvious reason.

I know I catch feelings pretty fast, which probably doesn’t help. I’ve had my heart broken enough times now that I’m honestly exhausted. Every time I start liking someone, part of me is already waiting for them to suddenly lose interest or disappear.

I’m not even sure what I’m looking for by posting this. Maybe I just needed to vent. It’s weird getting plenty of matches and attention but still feeling completely unwanted and alone.

PS: I live in a rural area an hour away from the metro so trying to meet people organically doesn’t really happen for me :/

27M in Minneapolis / Midwest. Getting likes/matches but not higher quality matches from career professional women that I’d prefer. Would appreciate any reviews from women between 24-40