u/PetulaClerk

With a neat selection of just nine studio albums, I'm guessing this is a regular topic on this subreddit, but after seeing a fellow redditor's post about the lack of love for The Great Escape, it made me wonder what my ranking would be for all of blur's LPs. Here's my take, from best to worst. What's yours?

1. Modern Life Is Rubbish
2. 13
3. Blur
4. The Ballad of Darren 
5. Parklife
6. The Great Escape
7. The Magic Whip 
8. Leisure
9. Think Tank

Is there an unspoken time allowance/limit before all the flowers and plastic wrapping and toys and offerings are discarded?

The unlikely pen pal who helped Tolkien improve Middle-earth

The author befriended a deaf fan, Eileen Elgar, after she critiqued his work. Now their letters are to be auctioned

Lily Isaacs

When Eileen Elgar was in her 50s, she told her daughter she thought she could improve the work of JRR Tolkien. "Well, if you're so insistent, why don't you just write to him?” her daughter said. So Elgar did – starting a decade-long correspondence in the 1960s that lit up Elgar's life and informed Tolkien's writing. This week a collection of five letters and six books exchanged between the pair will go on sale at Sotheby's in London.

Tolkien was inundated with letters from fans - including the former Crown Princess of Denmark and the author Iris Murdoch – but Elgar stood out. Her original letter, and suggestion for improvement, has been lost, but the pair continued to write to each other not only about Tolkien's work but also their personal lives, including Tolkien's anxieties and his grief following the death in 1963 of his close friend CS Lewis.

"[Elgar] had the balls to actually say what could be better" in the author's work, said Pieter Collier, a Tolkien expert and book collector. "I believe she was one of the very few people he could think of as a peer... she should get much more credit and respect for her communications with him.”

In a 1963 letter to his grandson, Tolkien described Elgar as "highly intelligent and well read", though sadly "stone deaf”. Elgar's hearing was permanently damaged by an ear infection she contracted as a child, which left her struggling to communicate with those around her. She had won a place at Girton College, Cambridge, to study classics but did not complete her degree. "Being female [at Cambridge] was hard enough, but being deaf was too big a block," said Collier. “One cannot help wondering what kind of scholar she might have become had deafness not isolated her from academic life."

Helen Dutfield, Elgar's granddaughter, said: "Because she couldn't hear and most people wouldn't write down [and she couldn't] lip read, she developed this very rich fantasy life." As a grandmother, she was difficult, Dutfield added. “I think she thought I was a bit stupid. I think she thought my mother was a bit stupid as well." But Elgar found an intellectual match in Tolkien, who, alongside more personal communications, sent her an unpublished chapter of The Silmarillion, a book that Tolkien worked on for nearly 60 years, which was released posthumously in 1977. Elgar lived near the Miramar Hotel in Bournemouth, where Tolkien used to holiday with his wife, Edith, and in the early 1960s he began to visit her. Because he could not communicate using sign language he wrote her long, elaborate notes. His daughter told Collier he would spend hours with Elgar, often filling page after page in a writing pad.

“Imagine it: Tolkien is on holiday, he's off, and he goes to Elgar and they're working together, communicating through these little papers for hours. It's not something you do with fans. He truly respected her,” Collier said. Just one of these notes remains, discussing the creation of the dwarves in Tolkien's work.

Grace Khuri, who has recently completed Oxford's first doctoral thesis on Tolkien, suggests the pair “could relate to each other, they could commiserate on ageing”. The resulting letters are "quite poignant”, she said.

In a July 1972 letter sold at auction in the 1980s, he told Elgar about the death of his wife the year before and compared her to the elf princess who falls in love with a mortal man in The Silmarillion. “[Edith] was my Lúthien Tinúviel, with her river hair and fair face and bright starry eyes,” he wrote. Collier said the market for Tolkien material is “very hot these days”. In 2024 Sotheby's sold 21 Tolkien letters from the estate of the composer Donald Swann for £228,000, although this smaller collection - being sold by Elgar's family - is expected to go for less. But Collier fears such collections will vanish from public view, meaning less opportunity to study them.

“They all will get snapped up in private collections when they should be on display. Then they disappear for years,” he said. “It's such a shame."