38F, PC, GMT+3, looking for a long-term gaming buddy

I tried this once before and met some cool people, so here I am again, probably for the last time lol.

I love survival/co-op games where we build a world together, collect stupid things, explore, make questionable decisions and laugh. Project Zomboid and Valheim are the best examples right now. I also really like silly games like Repo and PlateUp for pure laughs, and I've been trying Helldivers 2 to come out of my comfort zone, even though I'm genuinely terrible at it lol.

What I want is someone eager to build and create something together, not just occupy the same server. I've noticed people play alongside you without really playing with you, hard pass on that. Curious, reasonably consistent, capable of both being silly and having an actual conversation, in it for the long haul, not a one time session and then the void.

I play weeknights and weekends when I'm not out and about. 30+ preferred.

Tell me what you've been playing and what makes someone fun to game with, just skip the plain "hey wanna game?" lol.

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u/Phoebe085 — 6 days ago

38F, PC, GMT+3, looking for a long-term gaming buddy

I tried this once before and met some cool people, so here I am again, probably for the last time lol.

I love survival/co-op games where we build a world together, collect stupid things, explore, make questionable decisions and laugh. Project Zomboid and Valheim are the best examples right now. I also really like silly games like Repo and PlateUp for pure laughs, and I've been trying Helldivers 2 to come out of my comfort zone, even though I'm genuinely terrible at it lol.

What I want is someone eager to build and create something together, not just occupy the same server. I've noticed people play alongside you without really playing with you, hard pass on that. Curious, reasonably consistent, capable of both being silly and having an actual conversation, in it for the long haul, not a one time session and then the void.

I play weeknights and weekends when I'm not out and about. 30+ preferred.

Tell me what you've been playing and what makes someone fun to game with, just skip the plain "hey wanna game?" lol.

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u/Phoebe085 — 6 days ago

38F, PC, GMT+3, looking for a long-term gaming friend.

Right, I’ve decided to do this properly again instead of staring at my game library alone like a slightly evolved Victorian ghost.

Tried this 2 months ago, survived, even met some cool people. So here we are, round two. Let’s see if I evolve or just become a more experienced ghost.

I'm 38, mostly into survival and co-op games and I take them way too seriously.
I do love Baldur’s Gate 3, but I’m deep into my third run so my plate is full there for now.
Current rotation: Project Zomboid (very excited for stable), Valheim, Raft, Repo, PlateUp, Stardew. And I am open to try different games as well.

Basically anything where you build things, make terrible decisions, or slowly fall apart while pretending you have a plan.

Looking for someone consistent. Not a one session stranger who disappears into the void. Someone to play regularly, share clips, and laugh after disasters.

Also someone who enjoys the in-between parts. Random chats, dumb thoughts, books, life. I’m not into jump in, play, disappear dynamics. I prefer something that builds over time. No pressure, just consistency and mutual effort.

Not looking for big Discord servers or rotating squads. Prefer one on one or small and genuine.

Light energy only. If you take losing personally we won’t survive co-op.

Humour matters. Dry, absurd, slightly unhinged. I like laughing while everything is going wrong. Bonus points if your first message is more than “hi”.

GMT+3, evenings work best. 30+ preferred.

Say hello if this sounds like your kind of chaos.

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u/Phoebe085 — 1 month ago

38F, PC, GMT+3, looking for a long-term gaming friend.

Right, I've decided to do this properly instead of staring at my game library alone like a Victorian ghost.

I'm 38, I play a lot of survival games and RPGs, and I take them way too seriously. Current rotation is Project Zomboid, Baldur's Gate 3, Divinity: Original Sin 2, Stardew Valley, Plate Up. Basically anything where you build things, make terrible decisions, or slowly fall apart while pretending you have a plan.

I'm open to trying new stuff too, just be patient with me for the first few hours while I figure out which button does the thing.

Looking for someone consistent, not a one-session stranger. Someone to actually play with regularly, share ridiculous clips with, and debrief after disasters. Light energy only. If you take losing personally we will not survive co-op together.

Humour matters a lot to me. Dry, absurd, slightly unhinged. Bonus points if your first message is something other than "hi."

GMT+3, so European evenings suit me well. 30+ preferred.

Say hello if any of this sounds like your kind of chaos.

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u/Phoebe085 — 3 months ago

38F, PC, GMT+3, looking for a long-term gaming friend.

Right, I've decided to do this properly instead of staring at my game library alone like a Victorian ghost.

I'm 38, I play a lot of survival games and RPGs, and I take them way too seriously. Current rotation is Project Zomboid, Baldur's Gate 3, Divinity: Original Sin 2, Stardew Valley, Plate Up. Basically anything where you build things, make terrible decisions, or slowly fall apart while pretending you have a plan.

I'm open to trying new stuff too, just be patient with me for the first few hours while I figure out which button does the thing.

Looking for someone consistent, not a one-session stranger. Someone to actually play with regularly, share ridiculous clips with, and debrief after disasters. Light energy only. If you take losing personally we will not survive co-op together.

Humour matters a lot to me. Dry, absurd, slightly unhinged. Bonus points if your first message is something other than "hi."

GMT+3, so European evenings suit me well. 30+ preferred.

Say hello if any of this sounds like your kind of chaos.

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u/Phoebe085 — 3 months ago

Here I am, a 38-year-old woman materialising in your feed like a philosophical question you didn't know you needed.

I read books and play games with equal commitment, which means I can discuss the meaning of existence and then immediately go grind levels for three hours. Priorities are priorities.

I also watch films and shows with perhaps too much emotional investment, and I draw. I use that term loosely.

I speak a few languages, take coffee unreasonably seriously, and have a talent for finding the best food in any neighbourhood. Which I consider a life skill.

Looking for the kind of friendship where conversation spirals somewhere neither of us expected, and the occasional unhinged meme arrives at 3am with no explanation required. Genuine connection, a bit of chaos, good taste optional but appreciated.

If any of this sounds like your kind of person, feel free to say hello.

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u/Phoebe085 — 4 months ago