what should I do?
I found this sent on my spam folder yesterday.. what should I do? Should I block the email or just ignore?
u/PhonePitiful9717 — 8 days ago
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r/Abortion_Philippines r/ITookAPicturePH r/PHGov r/PHSapphics r/jollibee r/EmailSecurity r/GMail r/dailychismisdotcom
▲ 141 r/dailychismisdotcom
Apple & Chad on TV5 Frontline Pilipinas... are we really normalizing this?
Talaga ba TV5? Anong nakakakilig sa relasyon nila? 🤮🤮
Nakaka disappoint na ginawa pa itong feel-good feature at pinag-guest pa talaga sa national TV.
Media has a responsibility to think about the message they're sending here. Hindi lahat ng relationship nakakakilig lalo na kung may groomer at pedophile. Hindi ito dapat gawing "inspiring" hahaha.
Nakakadismaya TV5 at kay Kaladkaren. I expected better! 🤮🤮🤮
EDIT:
Ang daming nagsasabi na, “18 na siya, so okay lang.” Pero that’s missing the point.
Walang nagsasabi na hindi consensual ang relasyon nila ngayon. Ang concern ng maraming tao ay kung kailan nga ba nagsimula ang relationship o pagliligawan nila. If that timeline overlaps with the time na minor pa si Chad, then that’s exactly why it's alarming.
At bago sabihin na “eh consensual naman,” pakisearch muna kung ano ang grooming. Grooming isn’t defined by the absence of consent. In many cases, the younger person believes they’re willingly entering the relationship because trust and emotional attachment were built over time. That’s precisely why it’s called grooming.
Hindi ko sinasabing napatunayan na may grooming na nangyari. Ang sinasabi ko lang, valid ang tanong at concern tungkol sa timeline, at hindi dapat i-dismiss ng simpleng “legal age na kasi siya.”
Hindi ba’t may compilation din dito ng mga IG Stories ni Apple na may mga pasimpleng hints sa dates, at marami ang nagta-trace nito pabalik kay Chad noong menor de edad pa siya? Hindi iyon nagpapatunay ng kahit ano, pero sapat iyon para magtanong ang mga tao tungkol sa timeline.
Possible ba na sila na noon? Posible. Possible rin na hindi. Kaya nga ang punto ay hindi dapat i-romanticize o i-celebrate ang relasyon na may ganitong klaseng unresolved questions. Lalo na sa social media ngayon, alam naman ng karamihan kung paano magre-react ang publiko sa ganitong sitwasyon. Kaya valid lang na maging mapanuri kaysa basta tanggapin ang narrative dahil legal age na siya ngayon.
Kaya hindi rin dapat basta i-romanticize o i-feature sa national TV ang ganitong klaseng relationship. Ito ba talaga ang gusto nating i-normalize? Na okay lang para sa mga mas nakatatanda na mag-pursue o maghintay sa mga menor de edad hanggang maging legal age sila? Hindi ito fantasy o “couple goals” na dapat kainggitan. Kung gusto nating protektahan ang mga kabataan, dapat maging mas maingat tayo sa mga mensaheng pinapalabas at sine-celebrate sa mainstream media.
u/PhonePitiful9717 — 1 month ago
▲ 6 r/PHGov
First-time Jobseeker NBI Clearance – “Invalid Date”
Hi! Ask ko lang if may naka-experience na nito. First-time jobseeker po ako and kukuha sana ako ng NBI Clearance since kailangan ko siya for my PRC licensure exam application.
Ang problem is kapag pipili na ako ng branch, walang available appointment dates at walang calendar. Nag proceed pa rin, pero lumabas na lang na processed na pero “Invalid Date” at hindi ko rin alam kung saang branch ba 'to huhu (i'm from QC pala)
May na-generate na rin akong reference number, pero nalito lang ako kasi nakalagay sa website na ibibigay lang daw ang registration code/reference number after ma-save ang preferred schedule. Since wala namang available dates, hindi ko alam kung ano ang next step.
May naka-experience na ba nito? Temporary issue lang ba ito sa website, or may kailangan pa akong gawin? Baka may naka-encounter na rin nito, especially sa mga first-time jobseekers. Salamat po!
u/PhonePitiful9717 — 1 month ago
Need advice: 5 weeks delayed (17F)
My friend already took 5 pregnancy tests and all came back positive. She’s 17F and around 5 weeks. She’s scared, overwhelmed, and not ready to tell her parents yet.
We’re trying to understand what options and support may be available for her and what steps she should take next. If anyone has experience navigating this situation as a minor in the Philippines or knows organizations that provide confidential counseling and guidance, we’d really appreciate your help.
Please be kind. This is a difficult situation, and we’re just trying to help her make informed decisions.
My inbox is open. Badly need your help. Thank you.
u/PhonePitiful9717 — 2 months ago
▲ 7 r/PHSapphics
song recos para sa bading na umamin sa crush na naging tropa tas ngayon uuwi na siya sa probinsya 😭
hello mga bading, song recos pls. Gusto ko lang mag-drama.
Uuwi na sa probinsya for good yung naging crush ko na pinag-confess-an ko, pero naging same friend group ko rin siya (unexpectedly). Ayoko na kasi sa mga nasa same circle HAHSHA PLS LANG HAHAHAHA, and for all I know, we both had the same sentiments about not getting into relationships within the same friend group.
Nalulungkot din ako because I didn’t have many openly gay women friends. Our humor vibed so hard. Wala naman kaming situationship or anything (or maybe char), pero nalulungkot lang din ako kasi naaalala ko yung mga date namin. and tbh, slight may kilig factor pa rin kapag naaalala ko ’yun kasi I was so serious!! nanligaw talaga ako!!!
From dates na laging naaabutan ng closing ng restaurant to wholesome group dates na lang. I was genuinely happy for her, for us. Hindi ako nanghihinayang. I guess I was the one who backed out first din. We never talked about it, and we were never awkward naman.
Seeing it now, I knew this day would always come. I think I got scared of LDR, and she was high-maintenance din, so it felt like we were both living in two different worlds. ayan gagi, ang sakit na ah HAHAHAHA
She left notes for everyone in the friend group. Others were unserious daw, but mine said:
“Wala akong masabi frfr pero isa ka sa matino sa girl group natin. And I’ve always liked that about you. Padayon na lang.”
Sana hanggang ngayon hindi ka pa rin active sa Reddit at hindi mo ‘to mabasa. Kasi I’ve always wondered what you would feel if you knew how I was coping.
okay so ayun song recos pls parang gusto ko umiyak ata
u/PhonePitiful9717 — 2 months ago
▲ 54 r/jollibee
Found this in my soup 🥲
Found a piece of plastic in my macaroni soup. Looks like celery or veggies lang but it's really hard plastic.
I already reported it to Jollibee, and they emailed me asking for my contact number and preferred time to call. Has anyone experienced this? If so, would you give your contact number in this situation? I'm nervous huhuhu what will they say?
u/PhonePitiful9717 — 2 months ago