u/Physical-Owl5007

I’m 25F. I’m extroverted mostly. I make friends easily, I look above average too.
I lived in a foreign country for almost 6-7 years and moved back to India 2 years back. Had a relationship abroad but we split because of differences, thought we had good chemistry.
Now I feel like most men are in the arranged marriage setup so they’d waste my time by just entertaining me until the family fixes something, which I’m not interested in wasting time and energy like that.
The men who show interest- I don’t like them, they need princess treatment, nobody is all the basic qualities I’d want like kind humble and all that.
And how to even trust arranged marriage setup, how can you just meet someone and in such a brief time marry them? Like people are getting married in less than 6 months of meeting.

And along the way I’ve started feeling, alone. My friends are occupied w their friends / relationships since I wasn’t in India for a long time.
I do push myself and focus on myself. But it’s just nagging me.

Women, if you were in my situation - give me advice, your opinions, your similar experiences. Anything that would help / make me feel better I guess.

How long does TNMC scrutiny verification take? Mine is stuck at E verification verified for almost 2 weeks now.

Cleared FMGE in Dec 2025.

Applied for TNMC in March the same day I came back from Delhi collecting my certs.
It’s been 4 months.
I’m still stuck at the verification stage.
Pending - 12th verification and Embassy verification.
10th is verified and Embassy response is verified.

TNMC says the delay is from CBSE, server hack for 3 months and shit. That 10th CBSE and 12th CBSE verification happens in 2 different servers, not related to school.
CBSE says, there’s no different servers, we don’t even get anything like that, how is 10th verified but not 12th.

I’ve tried visiting TNMC, CBSE regional office, mail everyone, tried nepotism, nothing has worked.

TNMC just asked for my number and read out exactly what’s written on the website which I could just read from home.

What I have is just a headache, stuck at a dead end and frustration on why I chose this.

I see my fellow colleagues getting into internship and all.

I’m 25 F, doctor. Parents have started with matrimonial sites. With all the categories chosen like same profession, caste, similar financial situation - there’s only like 10 matches. 2-3 are uncles so minus them out. And nobody looks even decent. probably in person they look better.

My parents are not really approaching which is what I want too, let the guy’s side make the move. And if it clicks, it clicks.

But I’m also an FMGE so I think the families think it’s a negative point?

Nobody has seen my pictures so, there’s nothing for them to consider also right.
So far it’s been a few approach, my parents liked 1, they said they’ll call back in 2-3 days and it’s been a week. Nobody is dwelling on it but - I’ve never been on the other side like this, dating game seemed easier LOL.

Also is it creepy or weird if I want to follow someone’s social to see what type of life they have all? Maybe they won’t even know me by name, and they don’t know how I look so.. if they do know my name.. is it weird?

Long story short - I just don’t know how it works, what to expect, how to act around it.

I passed my fmge exam in January 2025 and my internship started in july 2025 . Can i give neet pg exam in 2026 as my internship will complete in july 2026 ?