u/Piapia8

Hi Mom who had pre-eclampsia or gestational hypertension can you please share your experience how to lowest your BP after labour? Or it just went away by itself? TIA

I need to vent

Since I am pregnant, my mother in law way too much and over protective. I get so annoying around her lately, honestly thanks God I don't have to live with her and I live with my husband in the flat. Since pregnant and whenever I went to her house she always said do exercise and don't eat this and that. 1 day i have to stay the night cause we have to fix our toilet, in that time i was 35 weeks pregnant, and i was in the bedroom laying down and she called me and open the door and said i have to move and dont just laying down. I get so irritated about that,FYI she almost 70 and she still work casual.

Today I went to her house cause its mothers day here, when my sister in law asked me if I want to drink anything my Mother in law already cut us by saying don't drink any soda. I was like "really"?

And she told me she is gonna retired to look after my kid when she is born?! Like wow. So, is she gonna look after my kids full time or what? And of course she gonna look after my kid in her house. I asked when will u retired? And she answered she will retired once my husband parental leave finish. So she gonna take my kids from me or she worry that i cant look after my kid my own? This is my first child and I want to spend time with her as much as I could. But this situation annoying me so bad and I get so irritated.

What should I do?

I need to vent

Since I am pregnant, my mother in law way too much and over protective. I get so annoying around her lately, honestly thanks God I don't have to live with her and I live with my husband in the flat. Since pregnant and whenever I went to her house she always said do exercise and don't eat this and that. 1 day i have to stay the night cause we have to fix our toilet, in that time i was 35 weeks pregnant, and i was in the bedroom laying down and she called me and open the door and said i have to move and dont just laying down. I get so irritated about that,FYI she almost 70 and she still work casual.

Today I went to her house cause its mothers day here, when my sister in law asked me if I want to drink anything my Mother in law already cut us by saying don't drink any soda. I was like "really"?

And she told me she is gonna retired to look after my kid when she is born?! Like wow. So, is she gonna look after my kids full time or what? And of course she gonna look after my kid in her house. I asked when will u retired? And she answered she will retired once my husband parental leave finish. So she gonna take my kids from me or she worry that i cant look after my kid my own? This is my first child and I want to spend time with her as much as I could. But this situation annoying me so bad and I get so irritated.

What should I do?

Since I am pregnant, my mother in law way too much and over protective. I get so annoying around her lately, honestly thanks God I don't have to live with her and I live with my husband in the flat. Since pregnant and whenever I went to her house she always said do exercise and don't eat this and that. 1 day i have to stay the night cause we have to fix our toilet, in that time i was 35 weeks pregnant, and i was in the bedroom laying down and she called me and open the door and said i have to move and dont just laying down. I get so irritated about that,FYI she almost 70 and she still work casual.

Today I went to her house cause its mothers day here, when my sister in law asked me if I want to drink anything my Mother in law already cut us by saying don't drink any soda. I was like "really"?

And she told me she is gonna retired to look after my kid when she is born?! Like wow. So, is she gonna look after my kids full time or what? And of course she gonna look after my kid in her house. I asked when will u retired? And she answered she will retired once my husband parental leave finish. So she gonna take my kids from me or she worry that i cant look after my kid my own? This is my first child and I want to spend time with her as much as I could. But this situation annoying me so bad and I get so irritated.

What should I do?