I looked at the Los Alamos County website and they canceled fireworks in favor of just drones. Santa Fe is saying fireworks and drones, does anyone know if the fireworks are still on?
Yes, I acknowledge fires are bad. But it's 250, I wanna watch something explode. I accept your criticism.
He films himself playing basketball and golf at East Park and talks loudly to himself. I know I should mind my business but he creeps me out. Can anyone vouch for him? Is it just an act? Please tell me it's an act and he's chill af.
Posted in my town and got down voted for some reason 😭
I was wanting the rebel one :(
Also anyone can just have the yellow lanyard I want a blue one but it's not as important to me as the rebel pin
I've been encountering this internal battle, where, normal relationship tending is sometimes taken over by, "what, so he's expecting me to do this because I'm a woman?"
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A common scenario is he had a bad day, objectively things I can do to help are "traditional" tasks like making dinner and cleaning up a bit. But then that thought comes up, a feeling of sexist expectation that doesn't exist in our relationship.
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When I have a bad day he does all those things for me, and we don't think of anything of it. But if I do those things for him, I'm betraying women and babying him. **I think this fits in a larger discussion of the semi-reversal of caretaking roles in femist spaces and the expectation that men do 100% of the work now instead of 50/50.**
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Also, I *enjoy* cooking. I *enjoy* going to bed with a clean sink, etc. But when I'm doing it, I suddenly feel resentful despite the lack of pressure.
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To be clear, my boyfriend more than participates in our relationship. We're very 50/50.
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TLDR: I just have residual anger about my 50% when it comes to "woman" tasks despite my enjoyment of them and desire to be a loving and present partner. Where is this coming from? How do I deal with it?
Found a couch on FB marketplace that is just slightly too big for our Subaru. Anyone have a pick up truck and feel like making $20? Our apartment and the seller are within 5mi of each other in Los Alamos. We will supply rope.
I bought 30 reds from the bait section at Walmart to see if they could break down some dead plant matter in my raised garden beds. Came here to learn I'm supposed to have a THOUSAND? WORMS?
I am going to see how my 30 do. I gave them a potato chunk that had been sitting in the soil (it already sprouted and did its thing, we ate the new potatoes). I am curious how long it will take them, and if they'll reproduce.
I might buy another batch of 30, since I'm not seriously looking to compost and just want them there as assistants.
I will post progress of operation: 30 worms eat a potato?