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I know I could find someone’s Etsy shop, but I want to support a store nearby in-person. I’m mostly just looking to get a lesbian pride pin for my purse/outfits/work lanyard. :)

There was a store I went to downtown last year during MoM that had wonderful progressive/queer stickers that I bought, but I was drunk and forgot where/what the store is, lol.

Thx for reading!

EDIT: this post fits the sub and there’s nothing inherently wrong with it. Stop downvoting and posting troll comments because you don’t like gay people.

Tonight will be our second date, I loved the first one cause she gave me my first kiss and the experience was so fun, I happy cried on the way home and it’s made me rethink my whole life. (As in, am I even bisexual? Did I waste two years of my life on that previous boyfriend? Was I even attracted to him?)

The thing is, she’s SUPER attracted to me and she’s made that known. She wouldn’t shut up about how cute I am, she showed me a spicy pic of her (with my permission) and she joked about paying to see my nudes.

It’s super flattering but I don’t want to drag her along. Months ago I basically lost my sex drive; there wasn’t any traumatic event but I just lost the drive. Not even ‘rub one out before bed’ anymore. I can conclude that she probably wants to have sex with me but I’m not sure… it’s not that I don’t like her, I just don’t want to have sex. With anyone. Not even my ex that I currently live with. I don’t even pleasure myself any more because,,, erm, what’s the point?

But if I tell her that, she won’t care any more.

Sigh I rambled again. If anyone else understands me, please let me know.. <3

So, she ‘rizzed me up’ a few weeks ago at the bar and we finally met today for coffee. I’m recently out of a long-term breakup with a bisexual man, and I’m still hurting from that. I’m nearly 22 and she’s 27. I’ve never done anything with a woman, no dates or kisses or hand holding.

I honestly didn’t feel nervous at all before or after, I enjoyed it the whole time. I paid for it all (on the agreement that she’d get me a drink at the bar we met at) and she held open the doors and pulled out my chair for me.

Later on she texted me confirming that we’d meet at the bar later that day (now!) and she said she enjoyed our ‘date’… then asked if she could call it that, cause she really enjoyed it. (That made me smile and MAYBE blush).

I’m still in the unsure phase, and I get nervous when I think too much about this. I don’t want to get too involved because what if I get dumped for no reason again?

Guys I don’t know what to do. I’m a baby lesbian, I need an adult!!!

EDIT: she called me pretty, what do I do!!!

I’m not really alone, my roommate invited his friend— but they’re the ones talking. Everyone is chatting with someone they’re interested in or already with. I feel like my loneliness is making me push myself back into the closet; I’m a lesbian but dating is so hard that it’s getting hard to see the point.

At least my screwdriver is really good, and my bartender is nice. Tip your bartenders

And I don’t mean from the perspective of how women do their hair, makeup, choose a nice outfit, and a guy will just throw on a shirt and jeans.

Just… in general, basically all the time, all women are more attractive to me. Place one hundred pairs of girls and guys side by side, both dressed in formal wear, and I’ll always pick the lady over the man.

I’ve been going out to bars lately and any time a man approaches me I just don’t understand why; why do you want to talk to me, what are you doing?

How do people live their lives like this?

Edit: I guess I should clarify I am also a woman