31 [F4M] #South Africa / Anywhere - Looking for a long-term interracial relationship

Talk to me, Goose.

Let’s pretend this is the part of the movie where two strangers start talking… and suddenly it turns into exactly what we were both looking for ❤️

I’m a 31 year old black woman based in South Africa. I’m a Christian. My faith matters to me, I’m still growing in it but I’d love someone who’s open to growing together.

I’m romantic, soft, affectionate and probably a little more sentimental than I let on. I love thoughtful gestures, physical affection, inside jokes, lingering conversations, being wanted and all those little everyday things that somehow become your favourite memories. I really enjoy the little things. Little things like enjoying my cup of coffee on the patio super early in the morning whilst I watch the sunrise.

I’m also a bit of a movie nerd. I like watching action movies, 90s romcoms, war films, psychological thrillers and I have a serious soft spot for old movies. I can literally spot a Bruckheimer or Don Simpson movie, no credits needed lol. I watched The Irishman for the first time not too long ago and it was everything I wanted it to be and more 😭 Next up is Casino. Listen, 1995 was Robert De Niro’s year okay 😂 I’ve also been watching Columbo lately, which is very different from my usual Mindhunter and True Detective 😂 Every episode feels like a little movie and I’m obsessed.

And oh I also like watching anything based on real events. I loved Chernobyl and Band of Brothers (whenever the weather is really cold I like rewatching the Bastogne episode of Band of Brothers 😭🥶)

Am I just geeking out about movies and shows instead of trying to impress my future hubby? 😂🤭

Anyways back to business: I’m looking for a serious relationship with someone from a different racial background. I want my best friend, my man, my future hubby. I love a man who makes it obvious he wants me and doesn’t hold back. I’d love something that feels like home, safe and steady, but still has FIRE. Real passion and that shared hunger for each other. The kind of chemistry where you can be completely comfortable together and still have that I really want you feeling years later.

I’m very open to long distance if we’re both intentional about closing the gap. Any red flags about me look like this “⛳️” cos the grass is greener over here baby.

I’m excited about sharing my everyday life with someone. I love having that chemistry where we can’t get enough of each other. I want us to have our own little world, our own jokes, our own routines, our own favourite places.

Basically, I want to be completely gone for my man 😂I just want to be obsessed with my man in the best way.

And because apparently I need one more random fact about myself: I’ve been listening to an unreasonable amount of 80s music lately, I guess I feel nostalgic for a time I never even lived in lol. Aerosmith, ABBA, Duran Duran, Bon Jovi, Metallica, Nirvana, Lynyrd Skynyrd, Laura Branigan, all of it. There’s just something about the music from that time that I love.

I think I’m just a bit of a yearner at heart. So I think it’s safe to say I’m due for some overly romantic shit. I’d really like to meet someone who’s serious about building something. I hope to meet my future hubby and my best friend 😍

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u/PlasticDesigner132 — 9 days ago
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31 [F4M] #South Africa / Anywhere - Looking for a long-term interracial relationship

Talk to me, Goose.

Let’s pretend this is the part of the movie where two strangers start talking… and suddenly it turns into exactly what we were both looking for ❤️

I’m a 31 year old black woman based in South Africa. I’m a Christian. My faith matters to me, I’m still growing in it but I’d love someone who’s open to growing together.

I’m romantic, soft, affectionate and I really enjoy the little things. I like action movies, 90s romcoms, war films, psychological thrillers and I have a soft spot for old movies. I can literally spot a Bruckheimer or Don Simpson movie, no credits needed lol. I recently watched The Irishman for the first time and it was everything I wanted it to be and more 😭 Next up is Casino. Listen, 1995 was Robert De Niro’s year okay 😂 and oh I also like watching anything based on real events. I loved Chernobyl and Band of Brothers (whenever the weather is really cold I like rewatching the Bastogne episode of Band of Brothers 😭🥶)

Am I just geeking out about movies and shows instead of trying to impress my future hubby? 😂🤭

Anyways back to business: I’m looking for a serious relationship with a white man (that’s my preference, I find white men very HOT. I’m genuinely attracted.) I want my best friend, my man, my future hubby. I love a man who makes it obvious he wants me and doesn’t hold back. I’d love something that feels like home, safe and steady, but still has FIRE. Real passion and that shared hunger for each other. I’m very open to long distance if we’re both intentional about closing the gap. Any red flags about me look like this “⛳️” cos the grass is greener over here baby.

I’m very affectionate and I love deeply. I’m someone who thrives in love and who’s excited about sharing my everyday life with someone. I love having that chemistry where we can’t get enough of each other. I just want to be obsessed with my man in the best way.

I’m not here for surface level conversations or back and forth that goes nowhere 😭 I’d really like to meet someone who’s serious about building something because I’m due for some overly romantic shit ☺️

I hope to meet my future hubby and my best friend 😍

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u/PlasticDesigner132 — 1 month ago
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31 [F4M] #South Africa / Anywhere - Looking for a long-term interracial relationship

Talk to me, Goose.

Let’s pretend this is the part of the movie where two strangers start talking… and suddenly it turns into exactly what we were both looking for ❤️

I’m a 31 year old black woman based in South Africa. I’m a Christian. My faith matters to me, I’m still growing in it but I’d want someone who’s open to growing together.

I’m romantic, soft, affectionate and I really enjoy the little things. I like action movies, 90s romcoms, psychological thrillers and I have a soft spot for old movies. I can literally spot a Bruckheimer or Don Simpson movie, no credits needed lol. I recently watched The Irishman for the first time and it was everything I wanted it to be and more 😭 Next up is Casino. Listen, 1995 was Robert De Niro’s year okay 😂

I’m looking for a serious relationship with a white man (my preference, I find white men very HOT. I’m genuinely attracted.) I want my best friend, my man, my future hubby. I love a man who makes it obvious he wants me and doesn’t hold back. I’d love something that feels like home, safe and steady, but still has FIRE. Real passion and that shared hunger for each other. I’m very open to long distance if we’re both intentional about closing the gap. Any red flags about me look like this “⛳️” cos the grass is greener over here baby.

I’m very affectionate and I love deeply. I’m someone who thrives in love and who’s excited about sharing my everyday life with someone. I love having that chemistry where we can’t get enough of each other. I just want to be obsessed with my man in the best way.

I’m not here for surface level conversations or back and forth that goes nowhere 😭 I’d really like to meet someone who’s serious about building something.

I hope to meet my future hubby and my best friend 😍

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u/PlasticDesigner132 — 3 months ago

31 [F4M] #South Africa / Anywhere - Looking for a long-term interracial relationship

Talk to me, Goose.

Let’s pretend this is the part of the movie where two strangers start talking… and suddenly it turns into exactly what we were both looking for ❤️

I’m a 31 year old black woman based in South Africa. I’m a Christian. My faith matters to me, I’m still growing in it but I’d want someone who’s open to growing together.

I’m romantic, soft, affectionate and I really enjoy the little things. I like action movies, 90s romcoms, psychological thrillers and I have a soft spot for old movies. I can literally spot a Bruckheimer or Don Simpson movie, no credits needed lol. I recently watched The Irishman for the first time and it was everything I wanted it to be and more 😭 Next up is Casino. Listen, 1995 was Robert De Niro’s year okay 😂

I’m looking for a serious relationship with a white man (my preference, I find white men very HOT. I’m genuinely attracted) I want my best friend, my man, my future hubby. I love a man who makes it obvious he wants me and doesn’t hold back. I’d love something that feels like home, safe and steady, but still has FIRE. Real passion and that shared hunger for each other. I’m very open to long distance if we’re both intentional about closing the gap. Any red flags about me look like this “⛳️” cos the grass is greener over here baby.

I’m very affectionate and I love deeply. I’m someone who thrives in love and who’s excited about sharing my everyday life with someone. I love having that chemistry where we can’t get enough of each other. I just want to be obsessed with my man in the best way.

I’m not here for surface level conversations or back and forth that goes nowhere 😭 I’d really like to meet someone who’s serious about building something.

I hope to meet my future hubby and my best friend 😍

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u/PlasticDesigner132 — 3 months ago