Legal Issue!

My book is a novel set in and around a famous very large truck stop in the US Midwest, actually referred to by name in the book but readily identifiable from context anyway. It went up on KBP as an eBook only a couple of days ago. Needless to say, no sales avalanche! That's OK, no hurry. Here's the issue:

I had asked the truck stop company a week or so ago for permission to use one of the photos available on its website for the cover. I was told by a friendly person that they would need to see the work it was going to be used with. I gladly sent them a pdf copy of the text because I felt my book portrayed the truck stop in a very positive light, because the book is light-hearted and almost absurdist, and because it is clearly a work of fiction making no factual assertions at all (IMHO, silly me). I even suggested they might want to sell the paperback, when it comes out, in their store.

Yesterday I got a very huffy email back from a different and not friendly person to whom the matter had been referred. Without saying she had actually read the text this person said the book was libelous and demanded it be taken down. They said their lawyer had been copied. I wrote back as calmly as I could, but I agreed to "unpublished" the book temporarily and without prejudice, which was very easily. No big loss. I am in no hurry and I wanted to be reasonable, at least until I talked to my lawyer (a good personal friend who is also a top lawyer in a high powered firm, and who coincidentally is big fan of the book.)

I also asked the not-so nice but very demanding person if they could provide me with specifics of the aspects of the book that they think make false and damaging representations of fact about the truck stop. The possibilities, in my opinion, are:

--There is a drug-trafficking operation being conducted, unbeknownst to the truck stop, through the use of lockers in the truck stop where truckers acting as mules exchange packages without meeting one another.

--There are two very nice hooker characters who work the lot.

--One of the main characters, a waitress in the truck stop diner, when it is suggested that maybe she could cook in the diner instead of waiting tables since she is a good cook, says that "they" would never have a "pretty white girl" in the kitchen and move a black guy out front. (This is the most problematic thing I wrote, in my opinion.)

--There is a sub-plot involving unravelling the mystery of how the land where the truck stop sits, in one quadrant of an interstate cloverleaf, came to be acquired decades ago before the route of the highway was known at the expense of a farmer who was maneuvered into foreclosure by the bank. This gets solved in the end in a way that completely absolves the owners of the truck stop from any wrongdoing.

--Another sub-plot involves the son of said farmer bearing a grudge against the truck stop and occasionally and surreptitiously vandalizing innocent truckers. He eventually decides this is wrong, but continues to take revenge on trucks belonging to truckers who mistreat the hookers, being a good hearted soul and being the Godfather of one of them. That part could be problematic in suggesting that the place isn't safe and secure for truckers if it weren't for the fact that it is obviously not intended as a factual claim about the real truck stop.

Anyway, this really got my dander up for a minute or two, but I don't want a fight just for the sake of principle. I don't intend to give up but I don't want to rub it in their face either. I honestly did think I was painting a pretty positive picture of the truck stop. I would happily do a rewrite to genericize the place, though it would be hard since local details play a big part in the scene.

Thank you for reading this and for giving me the benefit of your experience and point of view.

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u/Pleasant_Flatworm866 — 9 days ago
▲ 4 r/trains

Azerbaijani movie "The Bra"

Do others like me who love trains and also interesting movies like the movie "The Bra" from Azerbaijan? It's from 2018. A lonely train driver finds a bra on the front of his engine. It was snagged from a clothes line that ran across the tracks on a part of the line that cuts through a tightly packed city neighborhood. He searches for the owner.

Another train movie I really love is The Train by John Frenkenheimer starring Burt Lancaster. What are your favorite movies with a significant train presence?

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u/Pleasant_Flatworm866 — 1 month ago
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Was it funny? I bow to your judgment. (Borderline arguably NSFW? )

Hi my people among whom I feel safe and welcome, unlike apparenly in a sub where you can discuss all things bisexual. (No I was not lurking; I belong there.) I was severely chastened for a reply comment I made to another another reply to a comment in which OP told how sex with a bisexual man changed her like because he was the most attentive lover she had ever had. There followed a run of self-satisfied commenting about to the effect of "That's how we are! Hooray us." Then another person echoed OPs sentiment and, if memory serves, added that the bi-guy was short. A follow-upper, not me, asked just how tall he would have to be. I think this was asked in all sincerity somehow, but I thought it was an intentional straight line, so of course I replied "At least tall enough to reach the .... well, never mind." The thanks I got was a net downvote and a scolding: "You're not being funny. Grow up." Well I never! Except a few times now and then. Reddit can be a cruel mistress/master. So, I am depending on you to judge, to condemn or to reassure. Was this even remotely funny or was I out of line? Please remember this was not a sub for family members of children with cancer, it was a sub for discussion of bisexuality in which it was apparently ok for one commenter to remark that she had height requirements and another to ask what they were. I submit this to you only because like all aspiring jokesters I am overly sensitive and I don;t want to carry the scars of this experience forever. Thanks you.

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u/Pleasant_Flatworm866 — 1 month ago
▲ 26 r/words

The sink next to your washing machine?

If you have a washing machine, I don't mean to presume, and if there is a kind of deep, square or rectangular sink next to it that the water may or may not empty into and that you might rinse out paint brushes in or wash the dog in, and that might be ridiculously heavy if it's really old and made of metal and what seems like concrete, or might be ridiculously flimsy plastic with thin metal legs if you bought a house built in this millennium...so what do you call it? Utility sink? I call it a "set tub" but I can't find any reference for this. I live in the Baltimore MD USA general area. Thank you for your attention to this matter.

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u/Pleasant_Flatworm866 — 2 months ago
▲ 5 r/nyt

Is anyone else fed up with the constant solicitations to upgrade and requirements to verify?

I had a nice chat with a friendly bot about it. It said "security" considerations required these steps after shutting down your computer...or using private browsing, or anything else that upsets the cookies. Is that really necessary? Or do they just want to force you to find the "continue" button in the solicitation to upgrade? How many times do I have to say I don;t want to upgrade? The bot said that had nothing to do with it. I said I didn't believe it and that I would cancel if it wasn't fixed. Stay out of my private viewing habits. Thank you and goodnight. If this is the wrong sub, tough. I'm in a mood.

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u/Pleasant_Flatworm866 — 2 months ago

That may be the wrong question. I'm a rank (yes, I mean I stink) beginner. I am too frequently caught out and lose important pieces by obvious attacks that I should have seen. I'm not sure I can do much to remedy the effects of age on my brain, but is there a method anyone can recommend for catching such blunders before I make them? Should I methodically check each piece for vulnerability before I make a move? I don't play any speed games (yet) so time should not be a factor. Maybe get more sleep?

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u/Pleasant_Flatworm866 — 2 months ago