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Apparently it's not possible for a single woman who's never been married to be a mother? And saying the forum was "made to suit the needs of married women" makes it even more off putting. If you get to the next step, they ask you what month has nine days, probably to verify that you're frum, because obviously nobody outside the orthodox community doesn't know the basics of Judaism, and theres definitely no way chat gpt could advise them. I totally understand people wanting their own space, but this whole thing is just very off putting.

u/PoetryGirl474 — 11 days ago

Top five

In the creator for top five, I cannot see any of the text boxes for anything past number one, because there's a notification box telling me that I cannot post without all five, and its blocking four of the text boxes. When that notification is not up, I still only see three and a half. What can I do about this?

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u/PoetryGirl474 — 11 days ago

It's beautiful, and I applaud my own genius.

What would a mod be called on a server for people who make mods to help mods moderate servers on multi-player games?

>!Mods moderating modders making moderation more manageable.!<

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u/PoetryGirl474 — 13 days ago
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Misogyny in Kiruv

So I'm not sure if this is everywhere, but in the jewish community I grew up in, there are a ton of programs to help OTD guys, and only one for girls, which is run completely differently. I've actually heard tons of stories about the organization who runs the one for girls shutting down any other program made for girls. The boys programs are generally just open drop in centers for the guys and there are some mentors around, and sometimes they take them on expensive trips. The boys are also generally immune from any consequences for their actions if they're anything short of murder. (There was one story of a guy who killed someone in a drunk driving accident, they tried to get him out of it and raised a ton of money, but they didn't manage) meanwhile the one girls program is a small house that has a two hour activity three night a week, and every girl has to get vetted before they can join. I did not pass the vetting process because I have autism (and probobly also because I hadn't actually questions and wasnt just angry) but I've heard they run it like an elementary school, with set dismissal times and everything. There are also a ton of things that they are fine with even the frumest guys doing, but if a girl does it, its considered irredeemable. A few examples are any sort of drinking, leaving school during lunch to buy food, getting a license before your school allows it (and most the girls schools don't allow it at all) any sort of gathering that isn't made with permission from your school. There are also a bunch of things that for a guy would just have everyone saying he's just a little different but for a girl would be horrifying, like weed use, dressing out of the norm, and hanging out with the opposite gender. There are probably a bunch more things that I'm missing. And obviously rape is always the girls fault, and she's pressured an shamed out of pressing charges, and if chas v'shalom one did press charges, there would be a ton of money raised to help him get out of them. The girls schools are also way more restrictive than the boys schools, and once you're in a high school, they do not allow you to switch, you just need to wait until they consider you otd enough to go to the one school for girls who don't want to be religious. One more thing I've noticed is that in situations of child abuse most girls will just be told they don't understand that their parents are doing what's best for them while if a boy was in the same situation they'd probably get him out of his house as soon as possible. (Obviously they wouldn't call cps for either of them.) There's so much more to this that I can rant about but I'm gonna stop for now, was just curious if anyone else has had a similar experience.

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u/PoetryGirl474 — 16 days ago