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I know there are Survivor fans here because of the Survivor Café, but where did everyone go now that it’s gone?!?! 😭

I refuse to believe we’ve been sent to the Edge of Extinction and have to watch Survivor alone down here and if that’s true let’s do something about it! I want to find my alliance. I want to find a tribe who love Survivor as much as I do! Castaways who are down to watch together every week, have our own Fantasy Survivor league, and do all the fun Survivor stuff that non-fans just wouldn’t understand. And when the season ends and we’re missing it a little too much, maybe we could even throw our own Survivor nights and have our own challenges to give us a reason to look forward to Wednesdays again!

It’s so hard explaining to people who don’t watch Survivor why Wednesday nights are basically off-limits and if you don’t watch live, you have to outwit spoilers and outlast until you can catch up.

I know Grails Miami has a watch party, but I’d love to find a few people to go with. You know that moment on day one when they hit the sand and realize what they’ve signed up for, but then look around and realize they’re all in it together? That’s what I’m hoping for! I’m going through a divorce, but I don’t want that to stop me from doing things I love, so I’m digging deep and putting myself out there. And I know I can’t be the only one down here who could use more Survivor fans to share our love for the show with! So let’s do Jeff proud and get off our couches and do something about it!

I’m open to anywhere in Miami-Dade or Broward!

I know most of you must be sick of hearing me but I got nothing to lose at this point. I feel like I’m dead or I might as well be. It’s been two months since the divorce and I feel nothing except depression and even that I don’t feel much. I’m in therapy heck I’m trying to see two therapist at the same time but I don’t feel like there’s a solution to this. I know it sounds pathetic but I didn’t feel alive until I was with him he was my everything my world my reason for being and he just turned into a monster I didn’t even recognize but him leaving out the nail in my coffin. I don’t think I’ll ever be myself again, I just feel like a zombie go to work and come home. Everything felt so beautiful when I was with him and not because of anything he did but just because I had him. I felt like I finally had my safe space but I know now I’ll never really have that. I just want everything to be over, nothing has meaning anymore. I keep hoping something will just magically take me out so I don’t have to be reminded of him not the good nor the bad nor the in between. My brain tries to trick itself like it was all a dream but my body still remembers him. We always said we’d die without each other and I guess I was always the honest one and he was always the liar so should have seen this coming. Thank you for letting me rant.

I’m from Miami, FL and I’ve always wanted to move to NYC but I am a little anxious about being a girl alone there because while I have visited several times it’s always been with people and I keep reading about bad stuff happening to girls/women like men following them, men touching them. It just makes me think as a women alone how would you deal with that? How do you feel safe or protect yourself?

I don’t know if I’m asking this right but man it’s been a rollercoaster of emotions. Some days I’m like fuck it I deserved better but other days like today im like why wasn’t I enough for him? I gave him all I had and more and that still wasn’t enough. I trusted him with everything there’s no part of me that I didn’t give him and now he can just forget about me and ignore me like I haven’t known him for almost half of my fucking life. Why doesn’t he miss me when I was supposively his best friend his reason for living why do I miss him but he doesn’t miss me? Why am I tempted to go back to him almost every day but he isn’t despite knowing I’m so weak that I would forgive him even if I shouldn’t ? My mind keeps wanting to fill the void with another person but I can’t even be with another person right now nor should I be because it hurts too much and it’s too soon but I don’t feel like I can’t get rid of this pain. I feel like when I get an ounce of relief it’s followed by waves and waves of pain. There’s that constant fear of I was stupid enough to trust and love him so badly and look how I ended up with nothing of myself anymore. I feel worthless because he doesn’t miss me when I tried so much and so hard even when I had nothing left in me. I literally destroyed myself trying to keep him AND THAT STILL WASNT ENOUGH. When will I ever be enough? I have felt that I have to try so much hard than other women to be wanted and it just feels like it’s never enough. I know this is such a toxic thought but I can’t bear to imagine him giving someone else everything I wanted when all I did was try and try again and try hard and try some more and one day HE will try for someone else and why didn’t he try for me when I would have given him the world if he asked me to

I’m sorry if I keep posting so much it’s just I don’t know how to process this or make sense of any of this. We had an amazing fairytale love and now he doesn’t even answer me. It kills me so much I literally feel like I’m dying on the inside. I just don’t best and how I was his best friend and he was mine and we literally said we couldn’t live without each other and I’m over here crying and begging to get back and he doesn’t even answer me. People tell me oh he fell out of love but I don’t believe that and I can’t believe that because if you felt the love we had for each other that doesn’t make sense. I know I’m not perfect and I’ve made my mistakes but I never overlooked him I always try to see when he was in pain or how something affected him and tried to help. I just don’t get it how can someone be your best friend you can’t live without them but they’re completely fine to ignore you and not even give counseling a try? How am I supposed to move on from the amazing magical moments because if I don’t I’ll be stuck there forever? How could he have been my best friend and ignore me knowing the pain that would cause me? I would literally do anything for him and that still wasn’t enough. I literally feel like I’m being punished by the world for something because he was the one thing I wanted and it had to take him away. I feel like he died but he’s still here and I just want to know what happened because the man that loved me would have never left me nor ignore me like he is so why and what did I do to deserve this

It’s been rough well of course it has been when you’re going through a divorce. I have been going through all the emotions these past two to three weeks (I lost count of days at this point) but the part that is killing me is how am I ever supposed to trust anyone ever again. I know that sounds so stupid and cliche but I literally feel that my soon to be ex husband took with him a piece of me that I loved so much, that sweet vulnerable hopeful girl that thought she could do anything if given a chance, the one that believed in fairytales because I grew up with the best grandmother ever. It hurts so much to think that I shared those pieces of me with him and now I don’t even fucking matter to him like if I’m just some girl on tinder, all he’s missing to do is block me which I won’t doubt he won’t do after we go to court. But it’s just how can someone tell you you’re they’re everything that you’re their world they’d die without you but completely ignore you 6 days later????? I thought he was my best friend I shared so much with him that I have never even processed myself. I mourn for the girl I was when I married him and it’s just sad because I feel like he took the beautiful piece my grandma gave me and she’s 91 so it’s not like I create much more at this point. Ughhhhhhhh why did I ever let anyone in this much???? How could I have been so stupid? But the sad part is I feel like without that stupidity I lost my magic my spark what made me special which I already felt like I didn’t have much to begin with I always felt like a girl that had to try hard to even get a little attention which is such pick me I know I just wanted my fairytale with my prince and a love story so beautiful like my grandmas but I was stupid to think I was even an ounce as special as my grandma is to get that. I’m just a stupid loser 26 year old divorce that is so behind in life because I was dependent thinking they were mines forever. Ughhhhhh fuck I don’t know how anyone ever finds love after this.

My husband and I are visiting NYC from Friday to Tuesday and we can't possibly try every sushi spot on our list. We're from Florida, so we'd love local recommendations on the most unique, memorable, and amazing-tasting sushi experiences.

Which places are truly can't-miss, which are worth it, and which are overhyped?

We're willing to go anywhere in NYC for great sushi. Help us decide where our limited meals should go!

Thank you in advance 🙏🍣

In no particular order:
1 Omakase room by Maaser
2 Hinoki Counter
3 Oyishi Sushi 80 ST
4 sushi kaze
5 Uka Omakase
6 SHOGUN OMAKASE | Manhattan Sushi Restaurant
7 TAKUMI OMAKASE
8 Koi Omakase
9 Sushi On Me